I'm kinda talking to a guy I like but he's a douche bag. He's known for just hooking up but for some weird reason I like him a lot. We talk and hangout but always only makeout and I want that to change. How can that happen? How can I make him wanna be in a relationship? I'm willing to put in time cause I kinda like him already.
Most Helpful Guy
Ah the bad boy liking syndrome. Happens to most humans that love the forbidden fruit. I am one ask me lol.
Most important part of a relationship is DON'T try to change your partner. Accept them as they are. A relationship is about 2 people loving and liking each other as they are. They aren't objects to be acquired and molded according to our prerequisites :)
You can put in all the time you want, but if something isn't what nature has granted him, you'll wind up cursing him and yourself :)2
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Most Helpful Girl
You really can't, my first boyfriend did a lot of casual relationships and I really wanted to change him, I saw him weekly for about 5 months and grew feelings naturally I just wanted him to be my boyfriend and I told him we were in a relationship and he went with it LOL I guess the feelings were mutual, however he cheated on me the last year of our relationship.0