Do you consider it rude to say “Look at me and look at you” to decline to go out with a guy?

[Anonymous]

For example, a guy asks a woman for dinner and she declines it, saying: “No. Look at me and look at you”

[bean2k21]

Using the phrase "Look at me and look at you" to decline going out with someone can come across as rude and insensitive.

While it's important to be honest with someone about your feelings and intentions, there are more polite and respectful ways to decline a date or turn someone down.

Instead of making comparisons or judgments, you can express your lack of interest directly but kindly.

For example, you could say something like, "I'm sorry I don't date psychopaths." or "My last girlfriend was a narcissistic loser who thought she was too good for everyone, and you remind me of her."

[Anonymous]

Just say, "no I'm not attracted to you"

That's the best line. Nobody believes that boyfriend line anymore and the dudes who have game will continue their advances. Just be honest with people. They are expecting that anyway. Don't turn down a guy and think you get to still be perfect. You hurt someone, get over it. If you really cared an ounce about them you'd tell them the truth.

[LiliTyaka]

I realy find that rude.. sorry but for me there are more ways to say "i dont wanna go out with you" which are way more nice.

[chadbdullah]

Hmm, to me sounds like her being a bit egoistical and narcissistic. I wouldn't like to date with a person like her to be honest. She could simply reject it by saying "no, thank you"

[JustinTheGreat]

It’s definitely a little rude but some men deserve to get humbled lmao

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Yeah, of course. Just say, I'm not interested.

[Anonymous]

Why rude? It's compliment.
It's means she know she can't match my level of standard... be positive.

[In_Trance]

Is she implying that she's not good enough to be seen with him?