What does it mean when a guy wants you to come over to watch a movie for a 3rd date. Is it a bad sign he just wants sex?

[Anonymous]

We went out for drinks the 1st two dates

[Pacquet]

He probably wants to hook up but if you like him and trust him what’s the problem? Ask him he’s looking for before you hook up though and make sure it also aligns with what you want.

[ShiftingMonke]

Did he attempt to kiss you or try to get intimate with you during the first two dates?

[Asker]

he kissed me the 2nd date

[ShiftingMonke]

Was it a modest peck, or more passionate?

I'm only asking, because if he's set a pattern of being modest and respectful, I doubt he will spring sex onto you.

[Asker]

thank you for the quick question, it was a peck on the mouth and that was all

I put on my profile I am not here to hook up

I do like him, but I want to make sure I won't put myself in a bad spot

[ShiftingMonke]

I see.. well. His behavior seems incredibly respectful, so I wouldn't worry too much.

It's still wise to go in with a plan b (if he turns into a creep) just in case; you never really know, but you gotta take that step eventuality if you can feel something there.

[Asker]

@shiftingmonke thank you so much! more than you know your advice has been so genuine and helpful, my best and most positive vibes to you. You are awesome!!!

[ShiftingMonke]

Thank you friend! I'd give a follow if I could.

Please come back after the date to let me know how it went down, and good luck with this fella!

[Asker]

I will thank you @shiftingmonke
hearts to you forever!

[Asker]

@shiftingmonke thank you - I am back, nothing happened he just cuddled and pecked me on the head and mouth - that was all. Odd though, he hasn't asked me about my life, nor do we know each others' last names. I am not sure what to make of this - and we were watching some show and he made a comment like - I'd never date a girl like her who does psychic stuff. So after all that, I am not sure what he feels about me?

But yes, I just wanted to let you know we mostly cuddled :-)

[spartan55]

Depends if you want to or not.

[Asker]

I am fine with coming over but I am not ready to have sex until he is my official boyfriend and I don't know how to tell him that without scaring him off

I don't know if he even wants sex on the 3rd date

[spartan55]

You're going to have to have that conversation. Scare him off? If that happens you'll know he was a shithead anyway.

[spartan55]

The ones that made me wait all turned into relationships.

[Asker]

great perspective thank you I will keep looking at this answer as a reminder

[spartan55]

I appreciate that, thank you.

[spartan55]

by the way, you don't know if he wants sex by the third date? He does.

[In_Trance]

Why would this be bad?

[Anonymous]

A movie date at home is just an attempt for sex.

[kareka]

He wanna sex sure