Guys, Does it mean he wants sex?

[ItsLily]

I'm friends with a guy, we used to talk a lot. I miss him so I texted him and told him I wanted to stay in touch. He invited me to come play video games with him (He knows I like them). Anyway I've never been to his house but I don't mind at all. But my female friend is saying he wants sex and now I'm nervous. She's very "sexually active" but I'm not. He also told me he wanted to go bowling together one day. Does him inviting me to his house mean he's thinking about sex?

Yes he's thinking videogame n chill aka sex

No he wants to play videogames cus u like them..

He probably wants both

[TheSpaceGnome]

It is probably both, but he likely expects sex to happen much later in the relationship, and only if you admit to liking him that way. Most guys fantasize about crushes and try to build friendships with them in hopes of a future together, but on top of that, he also is likely genuine about wanting to play video games with you as friends.

So my advice is just be honest, and ask him what he wants without judgment, and set boundries for anything you aren't comfortable with at all, or aren't ready for yet.

[SnowedIn]

I selected C. @DesiUwU and @BarryLiverstone are right. It doesn't sound like he necessarily wants sex that first time playing video games, but it's probably on the list. Not necessarily a bad thing. You can address it up front: say something like, "hey, video games are great but I want to make clear, nothing else."

[DaisyM23]

sounds like he wants to be friends but that could be your own opinion projecting, it can also be both but you won't know till you either wait and see or ask

[DesiUwU]

i think he just wants to date you, and if you guys work out he's eventually gonna try to get in your pants

[BarryLiverstone]

She’s right. Unless he’s asexual eventually he will want to become more sexual with you

[BarryLiverstone]

There isn’t anyone of understanding his intentions. Best plan is to go bowling with him and continue to meet with him in public until you can trust him more.


What kinda relationship with him do you want?

[ItsLily]

he's such a good friend and I don't want to lose him as a friend. But if he wants to date then I'd think about it. But I'm worried that he thinks I'm like her.

[BarryLiverstone]

If he thinks you are like her then you can show him who you are by your words and actions. By spending time with him bowling and other things in public you will demonstrate what’s important to you

[BarryLiverstone]

Are you worried that he thinks you are too sexual and that’s a turn off for him?

[Kaneki05]

Well if he's typical and your attractive he's probably thought about doing it with you. But that don't mean he's jumping the gun right away.
Sounds like hanging out or dates to me.

[JDavid25]

Yeah, it just sounds he likes and genuinely wants to hang.. He obviously missed you too.. It seems as if he does want to date you.

[Shy_Steve]

To be honest he would want both, So just be honest with him and he should try to make you feel more comfortable and he shouldn't make you do anything you don't want to do.

[KrakenAttackin]

Of course he wants sex.

[ItsLily]

But the first time we hang out after reconnecting?

[KrakenAttackin]

He wants to hang out but of course he is thinking about sex eventually. This should not be a surprise.

[MementoMori777]

It's highly possible