Is it fair for my male friend who used to flirt with me but chose another girl to continue staring and flirting etc?

[Anonymous]

He told me he didn’t want to hurt me but he continues to stare at me, eavesdrop on my conversations, look at my breasts, etc. sometimes even in front of her..

[Guy13]

YOur male "friend" thinks he is a master manipulator with the gaze. What he is doing is reducing you to an object. In effect that cold stare is his attempt to dehumanize you and mess with your mind until you decide that you are worthless... And anytime with him under any circumstances would be good for you.

Just go in the other direction when he starts up again.

[Pyrofox]

Sounds like he just friendzoned you XD.

[Asker]

But why still stare intensely etc.

[Pyrofox]

Welcome to what its like to put up with a narcist