I want to organize some more fun types of party nights like I had during university again (I am 26 currently and have my own place now).
I miss the party days in university a lot after sports games ended. Hanging out in the dorm or apartment houses with 10-15 people most weekends, bbqs on the back deck, party games with naked mile attached foe the losers (both guys and girls alike - but its always hilarious - I've certainly done my. fair share once in a while), or strip poker, midnight skinny dipping in the lake, or now nights in my hot tub would all be really fun memories with friends (both guys and girls alike). Or beer pong with some fun dares/shots or challenges attached.
Some people seem so closed off or boring now after graduating, or are in relationship with mutual friends who would also be present and neither want to do anything fun anymore if a group is around. Where did all the fun people I loved to party with during uni go?
There was even one night I had a bunch pf people partying in my apartment with a few of my roommates at the time when I got home, and I walked in after soccer and there was a cute girl waiting in my room who told me she just got her nipples pierced a few weekends prior amd asked me if I wanted to see (that I am not expecting to happen again as was an unusually lucky one off after one of the home games).
I'm reasonably attractive as I was a varsity athlete and still quite fit and handom, working in commercial banking downtown now. But nobody seems to want to pursue the ideas to have fun anymore and some people shoot them down more often now which never used to happen before if someone hollered out and idea in the middle of the party.
I feel like Austin powers after he lost his mojo to a certain extent. Whats the best way to find more fun loving and less prudish types of people again to organize more nights like these?
