How do I connect with her on a deeper level?

[Anonymous]

There is a girl I am seeing. We are still pretty nervous around each other. Sometimes there is awkward silence

[burlen]

It's great that you're looking for ways to deepen your connection with your partner. Communication is key when it comes to building a strong bond with someone, and it's natural to feel a bit nervous or unsure when you're first getting to know each other.

One thing you can try is asking open-ended questions to get to know her better. Instead of asking yes or no questions, try asking things like "What are some of your hobbies?" or "What was your favorite childhood memory?" This can lead to more meaningful conversations and help you learn more about each other's interests, values, and backgrounds.

You can ask questions about her values, aspirations, eating habits, life challenges, or anything that makes you and her feel human.

Another idea is to try doing new activities together that you both enjoy. This can help create shared experiences and memories, which can strengthen your connection. Maybe you can try cooking a meal together, taking a dance class, or going for a hike.

Don't worry too much about the occasional awkward silence. It's natural for conversation to ebb and flow, and sometimes it's okay to just enjoy each other's company without feeling the need to fill every moment with chatter. Just be yourself and focus on enjoying your time together.

[Guy13]

The best way to fill those awkward moments of deafening silence is to tell corny jokes. Nothing sexual, religious, political, or racial. This leaves one with silly animal jokes and that is it. Memorize three but do it in front of a mirror so that you know what you look like. Read it while recording yourself so that you know what you sound like.

If you can make her laugh then she will give you her heart. Women love a guy who is sweet, fairly attractive, can handle awkward moments, and make her laugh. Jokes can do those things.

[coachTanthony]

It's day by day for one. And the other it's not about you connecting with her on a deeper level but if she connects with you on your non negotiables on what you want. So your job is to ask questions of her that meet your future requirements of what you are looking for not the other way around. People care way too much about connecting instead of vetting and that will always bite you in the assssssssssss.

[Fireguy17]

give it time, that can take a while for someone to really open up.
it happens with time.

[nudetru]

don't try she's shallower than you think

[Anonymous]

Have sex