Why do I loose interest in guys so early?

[Essy24]

Whenever I get attracted to a guy, it takes few days... for me to loose interest in em, from chatting, calling... I get fade up...

Don't know why..

... I haven't give any of em a chance, I keep postponing relationship, sometimes I feel it isn't, too important for me 🤔🤔😒

[Vázquez613]

Technology and social. It shortens people's attention span. It messes up people's ability to communicate and form meaningful relationships. You always want to get, getting a notification or a like. You always want to feel good by pressing a button or swiping the screen. A serious relationship doesn't give you enough mental stimulation you lose interest and can't commit to it. It's not enough entertainment for you.

To gain anything meaningful, you have to go through the unpleasant feelings of virtue. It's like someone who needs to see a movie with flashing lights and explosions instead of reading the book because it's boring for them.

Or a guy who sits down in front of a TV every Tuesday and smokes a cigarette for an hour and then wonders why he is depressed when the season ends and he has nothing to watch.

When makes you feel good, it's probably bad for you and has little substance, and adds no meaning to your life. Just a short live pleasure. But you're always going to want more and never be satisfied.

I am not trying to tell you to change or anything I am just letting you know why you get bored of them, if you want to live like that I am not telling you to stop doing that. I would never tell you what to do. And I am not calling it immoral or anything like that. I am just explaining to what it is. Nothing against you.

[Essy24]

I understand

[KathrynTaylor]

You’re afraid of intimacy like I am. You fear that you will give men power over your life.

[jenna980000]

Maybe guys aren't your thing!

[driven159]

You are afraid of comitment

[Essy24]

Maybe so

[riverrat3]

What about girls

[Essy24]

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