Why are men demonized for venting their frustations, especially when it comes to the opposite sex?

[Deserter]

[inhua]

men get demonized just for stating facts and stats let alone their frustrations

men are apparently too toxic masculine when they keep their thoughts and emotions to themselves and they need to "open" up more but when they do, women don't like what they hear and some men have become so feminine themselves they don't like hearing what other men are saying even if it's true but society insists men be emotionally vulnerable SMH and blame stoicism as the root of all problems

"men need to open up their emotions more" they say and then they say "shut up incel" later on because they can't handle the truth

abusive girlfriend keeps hitting you in public and nobody stops her until you stop her but everyone paints you as the bad person? just man up and stop making excuses

wife cheated, drags you through divorce court and has you paying child support for a kid that's not yours? just man up and stop making excuses

some random chick accuses you of raping her years ago without proof and all of society turns against you? just man up and stop making excuses

and of course there those who are too sensitive and believe everything is there to offend them so they interpret it as "blaming" them except the only people interpreting facts as blame towards them are the people who want to believe they are being blamed even when they're not being blamed

[Phoenix98]

Because we're men we're not supposed to be emotional or have emotions at least that's what society tells us but then on the other hand tells us we can and when we do it usually just results in us getting hurt, tossed aside or told to deal with it and man up or we're seen as weak.

It's a double standard

[Bethany22]

Because the stuff they vent about are related to not wanting to get married, which gets in the way of women's goal to get married. It's hard for women who have to suffer pressure to get married, regardless of whether they too hold bitter feelings towards the opposite sex, whereas when men vent about women, men are allowed to just decide to never get married, and people will still think highly of them.

[Jamie05rhs]

People think higher of men who are married, though.

[FilmGuy93]

Wow, this was a really helpful answer. I wasn't sure what to expect when I got here, but that makes a lot of sense. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!

[Nikki1989]

Demonized? Really?

Immature attitudes like that don't help.

[Deserter]

You're doing it rn and yes, demonized

[Guy13]

Sometimes they do sound childish like not paying losing money getting no return which means prostitution is what they expect from a dinner or night out. Most of it is whining because the man’s life is not in a position to be attractive

[Deserter]

That's just inaccurate, as for wanting sex, what's the difference?

Imagine if men said, sex first, then I'll see if I wanna take you out on a date.

[Anonymous]

Because to women men do not have feelings. To women men are not supposed to get frustrated. Women are the only ones allowed to exhibit those types of emotions. The double edged sword of this is men are expected to show the emotions she wants BUT ONLY when she wants them.

[Jamie05rhs]

Because we're not allowed to have an opinion.
Didn't you know?
We're just supposed to shut up, go to work, but them shit, and be a good slave.

[Jamie05rhs]

"buy"

[boggboss]

Because many men vent by insulting women as a whole like they are to blame

[Anonymous]

Because modern women tend to have thin skins. They are easily offended and believe they are entitled to not be offended.

[LiamJHayden]

Possibly because most of those guys are broad brushing all women because of a few bad experiences.

[KrissAvarr00]

I suppose double standards?

[LimitedBenefits101]

Double standard