Why did I lose my sex drive?

[Anonymous]

I've had multiple girlfriends and the last one was very conventionally attractive. She didn't treat me right. All of my girlfriends didn't treat me right and I think I didn't choose them well enough. Now I am not attracted to most girls anymore, no matter how attractive they look. The only girl I see myself with lives in a different country and there are no chances she comes back to my country this year, only next year.

[Anonymous]

Are you saying it's a bad thing? Do you want it back? Or do you want to be attracted to anyone with an ass?

[Asker]

Not really. It's just that I've noticed too much of a change.

[Anonymous]

Probably link it to all women turning you off because of how they treated you, but they can’t all be that way, it’s all in your mind so you’ll just to train yourself to realize that and associate all women that way

[Asker]

I know that they are not like that. Now I'm not physically attracted to anyone anymore. I just want to experience a connection

[Opinion Owner]

I think once you get an emotional connection with one that the physical part will work itself out

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Depression will do that to you

[Asker]

I'm not depressed. I think I am just tired because I've focused too much on work after my last breakup

[WanderingLoveWizard]

That'll do it too