I have matched with a girl and I dont know what to text her. Got any tips?

[Anonymous]

Its my first ever match and i dont really know what to message her. I have never really had a conversation with a girl, both irl and online, unless the girl initiated.

Thats the current convo. i have no idea what to say after i reply to her “why about u”

[slatyb]

Is there profile text or just a picture? I did all my online dating on sites where people had a written profile. There was no 'matching', I just sent messages and if they responded then I set up a meeting.

[Asker]

It’s an online dating app, so there is both a profile picture and a profile text.

[Asker]

Meaning that she swiped right and i did too

[slatyb]

Great. Then you don't have to introduce yourself. Just invite her to meet you for coffee or whatever sometime. Don't time texting before meeting. If she won't meet soon, she's not serious.

[daskapitalllll]

start with daily conversation, don't try to be cool. just be yourself. if the girl wants to talk to you, all you have to do is keep texting. the sequel will come, be sure brat

[Asker]

What do you mean by daily conversation? You mean i should make small talk?

[shereeyaa]

ask her about her body measurements

[Asker]

I dont think thats a good idea