Guys, What is the most important thing when starting a relationship?

[Annasmith453]

[SomeRandomGuy89]

Good vibe.

When things are just starting out, what you want to know is if you actually like the person, and if you get along with them. It doesn't work to create openness and understanding by forcing conversations of marriage, children, etc.

And truth be told... most people have no dam idea what they actually want. It's hard to know anything when you're constantly reevaluation yourself and your life.

Find someone you enjoy waking up beside and then worry about how you'll make your attempt at walking through life together.

But yes, ultimately in a long term relationship, communication is kind of a pillar. It's not everything though. It's just something.

[Guy13]

Know that you know what you want and say what you mean and mean what you say.
If either party is guessing then the whole thing implodes from misinterpretation. Feminine. Gracious. Small waist.

[notwoke]

if she looks like she has genetics and life habits to stay thin? Look at mom, eating habits, does she workout? No one wants to possibly spend 40 years getting on top of a fat woman and having to be seen with her in public and around your friends

[Twalli]

Be open about what you're looking for in a relationship. I told my girlfriend I expect sex before marriage and I do intend to get married eventually. I also don't want any children. Because that was out in the open from the beginning, we didn't have to talk about them when we were already pretty deep into a relationship.

[BCA6010]

Authenticity. Don't lie about yourself or your experiences to try and impress someone. Sure this may result in a relationship ending as soon as the first date, but that's better than getting invested and caught in a web of lies.

[LickwidSkie]

Making sure you're both agreeable on what you want. For instance, if one person wants kids and the other doesn't, and that's a deal breaker for either one of them, there's no point in pursuing it regardless of anything else.

[Anonymous]

Communication. Because if she's not communicating from the beginning then it's not going to get any better. I'm a very easy going person. Most things can be worked through. But that only works if both people are sharing thier feelings. I can't read minds. And if I have to to guess I'm going to be wrong frequently.

[TheSpaceGnome]

That she is compatible, and open about herself, her wants, her needs, etc. and that she only expects the same level of effort she puts in when forming a relationship.

[HighValue]

Compatible morals, compatible long term life goals, being trustworthy for each other, at least some physical attraction to each other.

[JesseP1nk]

Communication, communication, communication. Tell him what you want and listen what he wants. Both be honest with your motivations and expectations. Always make time for each other. Does not matter how busy you or him are.

[SnowedIn]

Communication. Honesty (but not oversharing). Trust. Patience. LISTEN. Don't overthink.

[BillyBass23]

Each be open about what we want. Can't go forward if you both aren't clear about the relationship. Also loyalty & treating each other with respect & care.

[Fireguy17]

her personality, and how we get along.
How much do we have in common.

[FilmGuy93]

Participation, enthusiasm, making a point to prioritize and honor your person's feelings.

[GoingDownSouth]

Sex us usually great at first, so that's a gimme.
It's important to have things in common to talk about. Social and political views, attitudes about food and exercise, etc. You should enjoy indulging each others interests without complaints.

[RockyHammock]

Communication and honesty are the most important things throughout a relationship.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Establishing boundaries so you don't have issues later.

[najekim]

Communication, communication, & communication!

[SunnyRS]

Taking time to know each other, trusting, having patient and being honest.

[Anonymous]

For starters, she has to actually exist. That may sound ridiculous but these catfishers are nearly impossible to detect.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Realistic expectations

[boobliker]

banter and some sex apeal

[Christoff92]

Making her attached with smiles and laughter ☺️

[TheUniqueOne96]

A good vibe.

[That_One_Guy__]

Trust and communication

[JarneG]

Time together and physical affection (not sexual)

[noname21]

her boobs uuhh I mean her character

[Anonymous]

How quickly she’ll put out

[FeminineHSP]

Unconditional Trust

[peedy]

She says "yes"

[In_Trance]

Matched values

[Anonymous]

Sex.