Some things I expect on a first date
1 - Not saying as soon as it starts that you have to leave in a short while
2 - Offering to extend the date after the initial time
3 - Not arriving too early or late
4 - Have the cell phone on hand to call if delayed in traffic or so the date can call if they are delayed or so you guys can change meeting areas if something unexpected happens
5 - Research a few things to talk about before hand and save that for the uncommon possibility that you and your date lose the flow of conversation and new words are needed
6 - Don’t express too much emotion before the date through phone or text because it will increase nervousness during the date
7 - Never agree to eat somewhere beyond your budget
8 - Never bring co workers or family on a first date or casual first meeting because it could make you afraid to be your true self around the person
9 - Try to meet somewhere where you will not run into church people or school or family or work contacts
10 - Activities like zoos or amusement parks make fun dates but probably not something you should do until you guys are close
11 - Avoid areas where two people is not enough for a good time such as a beach or a barbecue - a night singing to guitar music or playing with your pets would be better
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1. Be confident
2. Be yourself
3. Kiss her by the end of the date (if you don’t, another will. And don’t say sorry for kissing her, say that you could not resist and compliment her someway).
😉 Your good to go!
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1. If he’s inviting me on the date, he’s paying
2. He must converse with me and get to know me before meeting up with me. My time requires effort beforehand , and it ensures you are more likely a safe person
3. Be yourself! can't stand men that just aren’t themselves
4. If we are eating at a restaurant, and you are rude to the waitress/waiter, I’m ditching you. I’m a waitress and you better respect that waitress
5. Lead our date. You better be talking to that hostess and asking for a table.
6. Humor , humor, humor. Humor breaks awkwardness. If you can make me laugh, you can have my heart.Bring a big bouquet of nice roses and dress nicely and brush his teeth and clean his fingers and nails- he must not touch her body because he thinks it’s cute, he must give her space and be respectful always
1. Be their authentic selfs.
2. Be open minded.
3. Make her laugh or smile.
4. Be a gentleman
5. And make sure to not call her back for a second date if you are not 100% infatuated by them. Because choosing the person you want to be with romantically for a long time is something you should take seriously and not just choose a girl because you don't want to be alone.Show up ON TIME! Be clean and polite. OFFER to pay, even if you insist on going Dutch. Guys always make more money than women, so the offer shows deference!
ASK ABOUT YOU FIRST. If he drones on and on, end the date early and figure you dodged a bullet. Listens well. He has some compassion!
If those all make the hit list, you have some potential!*Pay! DO NOT let her pay for anything!
*Offer to pick her up.
*Plan something fun and different (surprise her)
*open the car door
*give her a complement but don't be creepy or over do it.
*be respectful
*DON'T TALK IN 3rd PERSON and DON'T TELL HER HOW YOU TALK TO GHOSTS (both of those have happend to me)Smile! Be engaging, ask questions, show genuine interest, be flirty.
1. Pay2. Bring Flowers3. Have manners4. Remember she's not just meat but a real human
1.) Be genuine, and don’t play games
2.) Listen, ask questions about her, and show interest in what she says.
3.) Have fun! Smile, laugh, crack a few jokes, and have a good time.1. Offer to pay but we go 50/50
2. Stay off phone
3. Never talk about exes
4. Arrive and leave on time
5. Dont offer to, "go back to your place"
6. Open the door and pull out the chair for her
7. Get to know her. Ask questions that aren't too personal but enough to get to know her
8. Introduce yourself
9. Let her talk aswell
10. Dont state what you want out of the relationship, its too early1) don’t stare at my boobs the whole time. You can look but don’t stare
2) Wear a condom
3) Pick me up and pay for dinner.
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