What are things that you want to do on your first date?

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humpbackjack · Accepted Answer

Something simple that either of us can have a way out if needed and definitely initially make to be a somewhat short date cause you can always make it longer if you guys are hitting it off maybe something like coffee or lunch I would try and make my first date a day time date or early evening and somewhere that is quite enough to talk but enough people around so she feels safe maybe something like minutare golf or an arcade something like Dave and busters really I wouldn’t care so much where as long as we were able to get to know each other and enjoy each other’s company

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

now I know that it doesn't matter much what I would want, like or expect by myself... because is not really about my expectations

I rather get to know someone first a bit better... and then we'll both plan something more naturally, and according to both of our likes as well as our dynamic

that has always worked well and also better, for me...

icelolly · Accepted Answer

Go on a hiking trip or backpacking someplace nice. Au naturél. Talk, laugh, eat my home cooked meal, listen to music or just witness and absorb nature's beauty sitting silently besids each other.

I feel it's a wonderful way of getting to know the person well.. the way he is. I'd get to know if he's physically fit enough to keep trailing along, does he get irritated too quick, how does he treat me when others aren't present, do I enjoy myself around with him.. just him and me.. with no other distractions present.. do we bond well together?

apple24 · Accepted Answer

Eat a cheeseburger

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I want to have tons of conversation and get to know not just about my dates history but learn, through that conversation, what kind of person she is: judgmental? intelligent? humble? condescending? humorous? etc. And if all goes well, I want to walk her back to her car and share a goodnight kiss (if I sense that she is receptive.)

WhatTheHeckkkk · Answer

Get to know them, maybe walk around or get some lunch.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I think a candle light dinner or snack at a mall while we each go to buy our groceries together and than a childish movie at our homes like Tarzan or Mary Poppins

Desconhecida · Answer

Be kissed in an amazing and unforgettable way.

JessicaEarl · Answer

I like creative things. One guy took me up to the state capitol and we played croquet on the lawn. Another guy took me to an archery place. One date we made our own spring rolls for dinner!

Also depending on the guy, I like to surprise him by sucking on his penis. To me, it’s a sweet way to say thank you for the fun time and that I like him! (And secretly I like to see and taste his penis lmao). I don’t know why, but it doesn’t feel like a big sexual act to me. I just see it as a flirty gift!

SweetDumplings · Answer

I would want to go on swan boat ride in the evening, and gift each other, my gift will be home baked cookies, I would want him to say positive words of affirmations to me, and I will compliment him as well, we can have deep conversations too taking things slow, then afterwards we can go somewhere to the beach at night for a long walk together while holding hands.

ohshee · Answer

Relax get to know each other laugh make out tell dirty stories lol no just whatever happens happens you get a chance to be you in that moment and just let it all go you can't be pre-planned that's the best part about it it's spontaneous Who You Are in that moment

Bricealan · Answer

Things are different now at 41, than at 21. I want to know something about her and want he to know things of myself, interests, hobbies, life experiences.

Take her out to eat and then if she wanted, go for a walk on Strand Beach in Dana Point.

Anonymous · Answer

Don’t go to a movie, how are you supposed to
get to know them if you can’t talk?
Don’t: “Wanna go over my place” you wanna make a first impression outside of your personal space.
Don’t ask to do naughty things on the first few dates, that just shows you don’t want something serious.
Do talk about yourself just nothing to personal
Be yourself, just like don’t go to wild you wanna make a good impression
He honest
After like the 3rd date, you can go to one of their places. Don’t mention the condition of the house they will think it’s all about money.

Prof_Don · Answer

First dates are simply about the two people getting to know one another. That’s why the outing should be something social (no cinema for the first date), and nothing too pressuring or high-cost.

In my single days, I was a fan of going out for frozen yogurt or to a juice shop. Fun, carefree, non-pressuring, and low in cost…with plenty of surroundings to break the ice in conversation.

RealMarek · Answer

I would mainly want to talk and see if we have chemistry. I would be looking at her body language to see if there are signs she is attracted to me. At the end of the date I would give her a hug if she is receptive to it and let her know whether I would like to meet again or not.

Seangreen · Answer

Light bondage is okay getting pegged is usually for the second date unless I feel really comfortable with the girl. Usually starts out with candle wax at least on the Pain Scale and I don't like to get too heavy with lashings on the first date because it shouldn't be that intense yet

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Lol if i were to date , i would go old school will meet greet them roam around the town and in the evening would have walk in the park and would lay down with them holding hands and just watching the stars in silence
i have this ability to make the stars fall so i would show them my talent 😃.

I know it's boring 👽

donnny2367764 · Answer

I like to make sure we are both on the same page... weather it's for long term or just to fool around... always good to know you both have the same intentions. Sometimes it's not about wanting romance, sometimes it can be about wanting to be intimate with someone and that's perfectly healthy and ok. Just as long as you are BOTH equally
Interested in the same thing.

Dragonpurple · Answer

I want to not verbally barf and be obvious that I'm shy and reserved and instead have a good time getting to know her and be confident.

Some place where we can talk, getting to know what each other wants is always a plus.

TheAfrikan · Answer

I do not Love those dates where we sit our asses down for hours, i prefer adventurous Dates. So maybe be trying out bike riding, camping, hiking you know that kind of things you can do and feel like the adrenaline is on fire. That is what I can call a great date rather sitting at a table for hrs n eat.

Magnum615 · Answer

Go out for a coffee in the morning, followed by a long walk either the beach or somewhere nice. If the date goes well maybe back home for some drinks on the sofa with a film or games.

RandoMiss · Answer

Hold hands, have fun, engaging conversations, see various interesting spots around town and have some drinks. I don't really want to do anything too demanding for a first date, especially since going overboard could potentially make things implode, but something light to begin with is ideal in a first date.

sourabh26 · Answer

I would like to take a breif interview of the girl if I don't know much about her. Then I would like to travel some nearby places with her. Talk to her. Eat some street foods if she is okay. Visit temples. Gift her some thing which I have created for her. Atlast give her all my attention 🤗

Vick2727 · Answer

Go to a restaurant, a museum and maybe a walk in a park. Then go back to one of our places and sit and talk. Maybe kiss and then call it a night. Perfect date for me 😀

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

Go to France and sit pool side with a cocktail and some good music

Anonymous · Answer

My fav date is just dinner and then going for a walk to just chat. If those two things work then I know it's worth a second date.

SG8596 · Answer

Either something fun that we can both engage in together or something intimate that’s romantic and allows us to talk

Laura456 · Answer

Go to a nice restaurant with good food and nice music and have a conversation to get to know him and things we have in common.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Honestly? A perfect match of course, that we can laugh together, have similar interests, can talk on a deeper level. And no awkward silence and her only responding with one word replies

Nigjt · Answer

I really enjoy spending time alone with her an just getting to knowing each other as we cuddle because we also can kiss an let our hands wonder as she begin's talking while we listening to some music an other thing's.
God Bless

Amy10223 · Answer

Besides having a meal together, getting to know the person well.

TyLeeAndPink · Answer

Are you just looking for ideas? Personally I’d like to go get ice cream with a guy on a first date, or hot chocolate. Something you can talk over.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

I rather go take a trip to an amusement park and eat at one of the restaurants which is located at the park.

Adam1978 · Answer

Only one thing get to know the person, especially the important parts.

Citizenkirk · Answer

Go shopping at a festival or market, getting an idea of what her interest are.

Raiden93 · Answer

Something competitive. Something nature and something heart felt.

exitseven · Answer

Not screw things up so bad that there is a second date.

MM1480 · Answer

Something real simple like dinner in a comfortable restaurant and just talk, getting to know one another.

69erguy · Answer

Find out if her Vagina smells like an old Tuna boat or not because that would be the decision breaker on any more dates!

OddBeMe · Answer

Drinks and chatting are usually the main thing. It’s all about getting to know the person. But I guess it’s about their likes. If she’s into skating or whatever, that too.

NoOneEver · Answer

Fall asleep behind the wheel.. wake up screaming.. 😷✌️ And completely terrify her……

stevef73 · Answer

Best first dates are simple ones with no expectations. Go for a drink and a walk. Keep it easy going.

Luopio27 · Answer

- MiniGolf - A game of pool - LaserQuest A lunch where she can get a salad and I can get a stake.

AnthonyJ01 · Answer

Coffee, talking to getting to know each other, maybe a movie, dinner, something where there is no pressure.

John_Doesnt · Answer

If we don't go to fifth base on the first date she is a frigid girl.

dragoblack · Answer

Drink coffee and talk about our interests we are passionate about. If things go well, maybe go get food, then go walk around a local park.

devoygf · Answer

sing together wear matching pajama makeout share food watch movies bake together have sex do skin care bathe together

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly I’m not really sure probably just something peaceful that will make us feel comfortable enough to open up to each other : )

DevinAM · Answer

I like to go to fun places like arcades or theme parks if we have enough time and money, but I'm good with spending time with and learning about the person anywhere.

Yumix · Answer

Anything fun and cheap that avoids awkward situations in case you're not matching well

taco_truck · Answer

I want our conversation to flow and learn about eachother

nawtee_me · Answer

do something she likes so she feels comfortable and we can talk and get to know one another.

Wise4myage · Answer

Find a nice quiet place where we can chat and get to know each other.

Shiningtempest · Answer

@unknowngagsuser First thing I want to do on my first date is learning if she enjoys playing video games or watching NBA games at home.

the_sinner · Answer

Go to a park or some less crowded open space and have a long conversation. Then if we’re tired and hungry we’d go to a restaurant and eat happily.

Gangactivities911 · Answer

Really depends on the person. A concert would be cool I guess

metalhead71 · Answer

Live music is always a plus. Bank fishing around a local pond, a hike around the downtown part of your nearest city, stopping wherever you see fit.

BestWoman · Answer

I filter that person's behaviorThe first place I'll go is the beach. Lol

Better_off_here · Answer

talk and get to know each other, become not just lovers but best friends.

Lillie_xo · Answer

i want to listen to music and sing together

slatyb · Answer

Talk. Kiss if it goes well.

Dora89 · Answer

Go For Coffee and talk.

Mavie123 · Answer

flowers, slow dances, calm music

bones_20 · Answer

Drink. A lot.

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