What are things that you want to do on your first date?

[humpbackjack]

Something simple that either of us can have a way out if needed and definitely initially make to be a somewhat short date cause you can always make it longer if you guys are hitting it off maybe something like coffee or lunch I would try and make my first date a day time date or early evening and somewhere that is quite enough to talk but enough people around so she feels safe maybe something like minutare golf or an arcade something like Dave and busters really I wouldn’t care so much where as long as we were able to get to know each other and enjoy each other’s company

[NathanDavis]

now I know that it doesn't matter much what I would want, like or expect by myself... because is not really about my expectations

I rather get to know someone first a bit better... and then we'll both plan something more naturally, and according to both of our likes as well as our dynamic

that has always worked well and also better, for me...

[icelolly]

Go on a hiking trip or backpacking someplace nice. Au naturél. Talk, laugh, eat my home cooked meal, listen to music or just witness and absorb nature's beauty sitting silently besids each other.

I feel it's a wonderful way of getting to know the person well.. the way he is. I'd get to know if he's physically fit enough to keep trailing along, does he get irritated too quick, how does he treat me when others aren't present, do I enjoy myself around with him.. just him and me.. with no other distractions present.. do we bond well together?

[apple24]

Eat a cheeseburger

[OlderAndWiser]

I want to have tons of conversation and get to know not just about my dates history but learn, through that conversation, what kind of person she is: judgmental? intelligent? humble? condescending? humorous? etc. And if all goes well, I want to walk her back to her car and share a goodnight kiss (if I sense that she is receptive.)

[jennifer_bloom]

I think a candle light dinner or snack at a mall while we each go to buy our groceries together and than a childish movie at our homes like Tarzan or Mary Poppins

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Get to know them, maybe walk around or get some lunch.

[Desconhecida]

Be kissed in an amazing and unforgettable way.

[JessicaEarl]

I like creative things. One guy took me up to the state capitol and we played croquet on the lawn. Another guy took me to an archery place. One date we made our own spring rolls for dinner!

Also depending on the guy, I like to surprise him by sucking on his penis. To me, it’s a sweet way to say thank you for the fun time and that I like him! (And secretly I like to see and taste his penis lmao). I don’t know why, but it doesn’t feel like a big sexual act to me. I just see it as a flirty gift!

[ohshee]

Relax get to know each other laugh make out tell dirty stories lol no just whatever happens happens you get a chance to be you in that moment and just let it all go you can't be pre-planned that's the best part about it it's spontaneous Who You Are in that moment

[Bricealan]

Things are different now at 41, than at 21. I want to know something about her and want he to know things of myself, interests, hobbies, life experiences.

Take her out to eat and then if she wanted, go for a walk on Strand Beach in Dana Point.

[Prof_Don]

First dates are simply about the two people getting to know one another. That’s why the outing should be something social (no cinema for the first date), and nothing too pressuring or high-cost.


In my single days, I was a fan of going out for frozen yogurt or to a juice shop. Fun, carefree, non-pressuring, and low in cost…with plenty of surroundings to break the ice in conversation.

[Seangreen]

Light bondage is okay getting pegged is usually for the second date unless I feel really comfortable with the girl. Usually starts out with candle wax at least on the Pain Scale and I don't like to get too heavy with lashings on the first date because it shouldn't be that intense yet

[RealMarek]

I would mainly want to talk and see if we have chemistry. I would be looking at her body language to see if there are signs she is attracted to me. At the end of the date I would give her a hug if she is receptive to it and let her know whether I would like to meet again or not.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Lol if i were to date , i would go old school will meet greet them roam around the town and in the evening would have walk in the park and would lay down with them holding hands and just watching the stars in silence
i have this ability to make the stars fall so i would show them my talent 😃.

I know it's boring 👽

[donnny2367764]

I like to make sure we are both on the same page... weather it's for long term or just to fool around... always good to know you both have the same intentions. Sometimes it's not about wanting romance, sometimes it can be about wanting to be intimate with someone and that's perfectly healthy and ok. Just as long as you are BOTH equally
Interested in the same thing.

[SweetDumplings]

I would want to go on swan boat ride in the evening, and gift each other, my gift will be home baked cookies, I would want him to say positive words of affirmations to me, and I will compliment him as well, we can have deep conversations too taking things slow, then afterwards we can go somewhere to the beach at night for a long walk together while holding hands.

[Dragonpurple]

I want to not verbally barf and be obvious that I'm shy and reserved and instead have a good time getting to know her and be confident.

Some place where we can talk, getting to know what each other wants is always a plus.

[TheAfrikan]

I do not Love those dates where we sit our asses down for hours, i prefer adventurous Dates. So maybe be trying out bike riding, camping, hiking you know that kind of things you can do and feel like the adrenaline is on fire. That is what I can call a great date rather sitting at a table for hrs n eat.

[RandoMiss]

Hold hands, have fun, engaging conversations, see various interesting spots around town and have some drinks. I don't really want to do anything too demanding for a first date, especially since going overboard could potentially make things implode, but something light to begin with is ideal in a first date.

[sourabh26]

I would like to take a breif interview of the girl if I don't know much about her. Then I would like to travel some nearby places with her. Talk to her. Eat some street foods if she is okay. Visit temples. Gift her some thing which I have created for her. Atlast give her all my attention 🤗

[Vick2727]

Go to a restaurant, a museum and maybe a walk in a park. Then go back to one of our places and sit and talk. Maybe kiss and then call it a night. Perfect date for me 😀

[Anonymous]

Don’t go to a movie, how are you supposed to
get to know them if you can’t talk?
Don’t: “Wanna go over my place” you wanna make a first impression outside of your personal space.
Don’t ask to do naughty things on the first few dates, that just shows you don’t want something serious.
Do talk about yourself just nothing to personal
Be yourself, just like don’t go to wild you wanna make a good impression
He honest
After like the 3rd date, you can go to one of their places. Don’t mention the condition of the house they will think it’s all about money.

[SG8596]

Either something fun that we can both engage in together or something intimate that’s romantic and allows us to talk