Would you feel confident in your overall attractiveness for the short term but not good enough for the long term so you eject/reject/don't start?

[Anonymous]

I'm asking if you would ever pass up on someone even if you're confident in the short term because you feel like you wouldn't be good enough in the long term. If so, please share your experience. What were/are you confident/unconfident about?

Maybe you're confident for whatever reason at first impressions, maybe you're at least somewhat good looking with a few good jokes but in the long term you're just broke, irresponsible or boring.

Maybe you're just really good with words in the beginning because you've gone on lots of first dates but you always get it wrong on following dates.

Nope I'm confident enough

Nope I wouldn't pass the opportunity even though I'd feel insecure

Nope I'd feel confident if we spend time together

Yes I would pass up the chance since I felt my short term confidence would fade away

[Guy13]

Self-fulfilling prophecy creating the thought process for the failure only awaiting it to take the shape forming in your head.

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol I'm actually the opposite. I feel very confident in the long term but I'm not really sure about the short term. The short term is the scary part.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I wouldn't pass up the opportunity, especially since I don't have any.