I added a guy on LinkedIn that I like with a message saying how we know each other and he accepted but hasn’t replied. Should I message again?

[Anonymous]

I don’t think he saw the message actually lol. Doesn’t mark read. Anyway he’s not really active on social media so that’s the only place I could think to add him. Also he went to an Ivy League and is really nerdy (in a good way) he has high standards for who he accepts to his network so I’m flattered he accepted lol. My message was really just how I knew him but no invite to get coffee or anything.

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FYI I know LinkedIn isn’t a dating platform. I actually barely use it. This is sincerely just a one off situation.

[AviatorTom]

I've been on LinkedIn for years and have many connections. It's common to simply accept a connection without making a reply. Unless you really want to get personal with him, just let his non-reply go. See him in public is better than personal messages in LinkedIn.

[Asker]

Yeah I have been using LinkedIn for years too.

[Anonymous]

Don’t double send, you have no idea what’s happening in his personal life. He could be talking to another woman or just disinterested in dating in general. Move on.