How do you know when to go in for a kiss?

[baseball_del_tuono]

I’ve never been on a real date like that I’ve never had a girlfriend obviously anything like that I have no experience with women. So I just asked a girl to prom yesterday she said yes!!! Today at school I met her at her class when she was leaving her class and I was walking with her to her next class, and she liked locked arms with me and held my hand I was like yes!!! (In my head) when we got to her next class she whispered in my ear you don’t have to be nervous and kissed me on the check!! I don’t want to do it in school obviously but how do I know when to kiss her? Someone else was right and said just pick up on her vibes which I get but like how? like what vibes am I looking for? How do I know when to go in for the kiss?

[melanieeeB]

Mostly when you already had a great time, good chemistry and you know she likes you and you get into a situation where you both just feel comfortable, little cozy and warm and maybe both get a little silent and looking into eyes etc and then you can try BUT what also works great, when you're in this cozy atmosphere situation thing, you can just ask "hey I would love to kiss you right now, is that alright?" , it doesn't kill the vibe and it will not get awkward at all

[baseball_del_tuono]

I’m nervous I’m at work but I get out in 15 then I’m going out to dinner. This is like my first date date, is this a date? It’s a date right shoukd I ask her if she wants to come back to my house and chill after or is that too aggressive?

[melanieeeB]

I personally would say no when that is the first date and you would ask me. I would also definitely not kiss you at the first date.

[baseball_del_tuono]

Ok thanks picking her up now 👍

[TacosRAwesome]

If she's being huggy and affectionate, you should give it a shot.

[baseball_del_tuono]

Awesome thank you

[baseball_del_tuono]

I get out of work in like 15 minutes and then I’m picking her up we’re going to dinner pretty casual. It’s my first date likevreal date. This is a real date right? Should I ask her if she wants to come back afterwards back to my house or is that too aggressive?

[TacosRAwesome]

No no. It's a bit too aggressive. Start with the kiss first.

[baseball_del_tuono]

Went well got that kids too

[Lliam]

Short of hitting you in the head with a 2"x4", she is already clearly signaling that she is into you. I guarantee that she wants to be your girlfriend.

So take every opportunity to talk to her and hold her hand while walking together. Make it clear that you adore her and want to be her boyfriend. It's okay to be nervous. She's nervous, too.

Take note of how she looks at you and how she responds. If she smiles when talking to you, and readily holds your hand, you're in.

So, the way to initiate a first kiss is to wait until the two of you are alone and chatting while facing each other and standing close. Gaze into her eyes, go silent, and take a half a step closer until you are almost touching. While still gazing, lean your face slowly toward hers. Close your eyes and kiss her lips with a tender, lingering kiss. Don't open your mouth or use tongue. Make it sweet.

At the same time that you lean forward to kiss her, put your hands on her waist and see if she steps into you.

After the kiss, continue to hold her gently and have an expression on your face that looks like you just experienced the most wondrous thing of your life. Total adoration. I'm sure that is how you will genuinely feel. So don't try to hide it or act cool.

I'm sure she will readily tilt her head up for the kiss and press her body against you.

If she goes in for another kiss, go for it. If she opens her mouth for a more passionate kiss, wrap your arms around her waist, pull her close, and go for it.

[OfMiceandMen]

I tend to focus on her eye contact with mine as a cue, this involves looking at her and not avoiding her eyes, or you'll never know.

If she is locking eyes with you a lot and she moves in close (like personal space close) then she is looking for a kiss.

[Fuentes]

Try it n find out