When should I go in for a first kiss?

[Anonymous]

I have been dating this woman and I really like her. We have been on two dates so far and they have both been amazing. We are planning a third date and I want to kiss her, but I also don't want to try to kiss her, get shot down, and ruin everything. Should I ask to kiss her, or should I just go for it?

[_Maya_]

Sure you can go for it. There are usually signs that she is ready and the timing is right. At the end of the date if she lingers around or there is that awkard sense of things dragging she might be waiting for you to make the move. You can usually tell by looking at someone if they are ready. She will most likely lock eyes and hope you move in. Just move in slow and you will know if she is going to allow it. If she rejects it don't even feel bad. Just say sorry and I understand you aren't ready yet. Any normal person isn't going to go batshit crazy over a kiss attempt.

[_Maya_]

Thanks for the most helpful opinion.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You should've done it in the first date. Women love a guy who isn't afraid of things like this.
If she didn't like you enough to kiss her, she wouldn't have even agreed to a 3rd date
Clock's ticking bro

[AviatorTom]

Next time you see her, move close to her, and say softly, "I'd really like to kiss you." Her reaction will let you know the next step.

[madhatters4]

i think after two dates you can go for it. try to judge the moment to determine if it feels right. don't force the matter but when it occurs naturally go for it

[BarryLiverstone]

The 2nd date. But kiss her on the third and don’t ask. It shows confidence when you kiss her as an action

[DextroShade]

It's a risk you have to take. Go for it, if she shoots you down then ghost her and find someone else.

[Drumlin2001]

Go for it, when it feels right

[gothbxtch]

ask to kiss her, when the mood is right.

[In_Trance]

go for it. Next date