When is it ok to have a first kiss? after how many dates?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

I have had a first kiss on many first dates. It usually happened at the end of the date. I also had the first kiss on second dates. If we didn't at least have a kiss by the end of the second date, I would be wondering if there was a problem.

[Asker]

Well we were sitting together in the car and he had ended up telling me to look him in the eyes when talking to him.. but we didn’t kiss, we did hug tho

[OlderAndWiser]

What I said applies for me, but I am not shy or bashful. Is he?

[Asker]

I think he’s shy because even for our first hug it took me having to leave my gym bag in his car for him to stand outside the car and say “I know why you came back” and offer a hug

[slatyb]

It's ok whenever you both feel like it. It could be at the end of the first date, or at the end of the first hour of the first date. Any man who judges you for kissing or whatever too soon is not a man you want to be with.

[Asker]

I think I will just wait for him.. even though he’s so adorable and I want to kiss him immediately I’d rather him initiate and feel comfortable first

[slatyb]

After I divorced and started dating, I found that women almost always let me know when they wanted to be kissed by getting close and making it easy. I never had to ask. I expect you know how to do that.

[Jasmin01]

After the first, second or third date or whenever you want. Everything is okay. Depends on when you feel ready.

[jahaims]

No set dates. It is when you are both ready. You can try to read body language/mood and go for a kiss or just flat out ask if he is okay with you kissing him of you aren't comfortable with that.

[kareka]

Mmmm no rules
I did in the 1st date with some
In 4th with some
It depends on a lot

[Asker]

True.. I hugged the guy but I’m wondering if he’ll wNna kiss next time

[kareka]

Leave it to him
When this girl hugged me i kissed her neck a lot

[kareka]

Just give him the chance and he will go

[Asker]

That’s a good idea.. like just let him decide

[Asker]

Instead of me wanting to kiss him and asking if I can

[kareka]

Yesss trust me
He will do more
Just let him get the 1st step

[Asker]

Well we had our first date today and I left my gym bag in his car and he was waiting outside his car to give it to me and gave me a hug

[Asker]

But I really really wanted to hold him

[kareka]

May u follow me?
We can both think loudly ^_^

[andreasderjuengere]

Why not already DURING a date?

[Staximus]

When it feels right

[Nirmroth]

1-3 date

[DWornock]

On the third date.