Based on what factors should a girl choose a guy to marry? I usually agree even if he's toxic and narcissistic guy. What kind of boundaries I need?

[Anonymous]

[Marked_Man]

You need major boundaries. Things you should consider are:

- is he kind

- is he employed and has good career prospects

-is he attractive

- is he family oriented

- is he stable and has good habits

- is he charming/intelligent/good personality

[Marked_Man]

Thanks for mh

[Kyr0s]

A low body count/ virgin
Attractive to you
Stable job
Family oriented
Clean
Fit

[melanieeeB]

You need a lot of boundaries if you just say yes to the next person.
Try therapy first and maybe don't jump into marriage.
Most important thing is respect, having self respect should be your first thing to attain and then choosing only men who are not toxic, who do respect you and don't use you.

[RockyHammock]

Great question, let me mansplain it for ya:

- do you enjoy his company?
- is he good in bed?
- does he have the drive to pursue good jobs?

That's about it. Everything else comes and goes.

[Asker]

First and third questions are great. Second one is not mandatory

[Anonymous]

Self made & financially strong