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I never compete! Life is too short to waste fighting for a man who may or may not want me. I prefer the ones that come with their hat off, and looking to please me!
Yea why not... i mean whoever is willing to do more for him should get him
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Here’s the thing - women “competing” for a guy is completely pointless. If he wants you he’ll choose you and if he doesn’t there is nothing you can do to change that.
We simply don’t work the same way women do
Why competing? sharing is more feminine, how about an polyamory triad relationship? :)
But you mean in reference to a highly masculine, deep voice, desired male right?
Like Brad Pitt types?
Obviously not someone who looks like you
Highly desired men have high standards and options. Lots of options. It’s not a waste of time if you can compete in that class but if you’re an average woman you probably shouldn’t waste your time with unrealistic goals. There are a lot of average guys that are going to move on without you if you focus on the elite men. Also the demands on you will be significantly higher with high class men.
just cause a man is desired doesn't mean he's promiscuous. it's like assuming that someone who's invisible will automatically be a thief. i mean a high quality man will be very picky. so it's very hard to get him. a good looking player is easy to get but i wouldn't call that guy desirable.
Look at the lotto. One in a billion chance odds, but if you make it you think you'll be happy for life. Millions of people still buy tickets for that remote chance of happiness, yet only 1 or 2 actually enjoy the payout and most know the odds.
Should people stop? Yes, they expend more time, energy, and resources for a less than 1% chance of it actually going their way.
Will they stop? No, because emotions have a way of overpowering your thinking.
What a tragic irony women thinking it's a waste of time to compete for a man as they are surrounded by MILLIONS of other man who would commit to them. Meanwhile millions of men don't even have to compete for the woman because the chances of getting her are less than the chances of winning the lottery. Game over.
Absolutely if you want to get a good one but remember if he cheats with another to be with you he will cheat on you
I mean yes sometimes and no other times.
If a woman comes at me hard I'll pay more attention to her but if I don't jump at being with her, then yes I'll just fool around and not commit or anything. But if she is worth it I'll see and be 100%.
So if you think you're a poor match or have low value, don't bother. Otherwise go for it.
Completely waste of time. Let the man choose whomever he wants to choose.
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Why wouldn't we want women to try for the best man they can get?
There's nothing wrong with shooting for the moon.
I've yet to meet a man worth that type of energy. I don't compete, if a gal wants him more than me and he wants her, go for it. Most guys that like this type of attention don't have much of a personality in my experience anyway.
I think competition drives us to become better regardless of what we're competing towards: men, women, trophies, or even just a slice of pizza. It's in training to defeat your competition that we all become better in life.
competing is usually for immature young girls who still have plenty of time to play around. by the time you get to a certain age, you realize that the right man loves you for who you are rather than a man that you need to fight for.
I've always been a girl who does not like a guy a lot of girls want. I don't compete 😂😂 they can have him. Because thats boosting their ego and their sense of entitlement. So no I don't think that women should compete
In my opinion no. A woman should never fight for a man, if he wants you he’ll fight for you in the beginning and if he doesn’t it’s not worth your time.
I would say a competition can make a man believe he is that much more desirable. And when believe they are desirable they tend to avoid settling down.
I'm all about commitment and have been trying to be in a relationship with a woman who wants a great man and can get past my looks. But I hate any form of domestic violence and arguing with a partner. And I am very passionate about making a woman's body work properly and I hope one day I will be with a woman who can see me for the person that I am. But I have no women competing for my affection. I sometimes wish they would though cause I am most definitely worth it.
Waste of time. You never chase and beg someone to be in your life.
If someone desires to be with you then they will try their all to be with you.