Girls how offended would you get if your boyfriend said “you’re just like your mother”?

[TrillXHippy]

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Guys how offended would you get if your girlfriend said “you’re just like your father?” Would that really bother you?

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Wow 😭

[DizzyDesii]

Im pretty sure i’ll have told them the pros and cons of being compared to her long before then so if they say that shit, oh ho ho. I’m absolutely bout to throw a low blow so they really dont need to go there. If they wanna spark sumn, im bout to add more gasoline to the fire

Still, its safer territory then if they compared me to my dad

No matter how much alike them i can be at times, one should never actually say that shit to me unless they’re hoping/expecting to never talk again

[Gibbons44]

Your mother was THAT BAD?

[DizzyDesii]

she actually wasn't when i was younger, but i hate being compared to my parents

[TrillXHippy]

Well I’ve been warned

[DizzyDesii]

🤣🤣🤣 You’re a trip. But i know your situation and wouldn't throw something like that at you. But like the people who intentionally try to hurt me with it, yea

[TrillXHippy]

That means a lot 😊

[Gibbons44]

Erm, I am an orphan, you might call it a bastard. Or an experiment. I got used to being called that - not my problem others are privileged _and_ worse

[DizzyDesii]

@Gibbons44 yea im not the type to go for major low blows. Im not talking about moms in these type of situations. For example i disliked my exes mom but kept it to myself out of respect for him. But his mom dogged me out out loud daily and he hardly tried to stop her. So if he were to compare me to my parent, i’d take that as the day i truly tell him what a pos his mom is

[Gibbons44]

Why go for low blows at all? (What are horses shoes for?)

[Gibbons44]

I mean, to me, 'you're like your father' means 'you'll stay with me forever'. Nothing better.

[DizzyDesii]

my point is that if im dating someone, i’ll have told them why im not as close with my parents anymore and so they shouldn't go using that against me someday. The gifs above are more so referring to immature “yo momma” type jokes. Not actual low blows

[Gibbons44]

No, of course not. But you probably need to disentangle from your old folk. Bit by bit. Then it will be an empty comment.

[mandyfire98]

He'd actually be right to a degree. My mother and I actually have a similar personalities.

[Gibbons44]

Lol - was going to say, who else should a girl be like? Her aunt's social club secretary?

[mandyfire98]

I guess acting like the father possibly which can happen. Like I get some personality traits from my dad. But the majority are from my mom.

[Gibbons44]

Yeah, obviously. But why would 'like mom' be an insult?
Both my parents were fabulous people, mom probably moreso on a human-feelings-level - I could only perceive both as a huge compliment.

[mandyfire98]

It would only be an insult if the mother was toxic

[Gibbons44]

Well, if the daughter is toxic as well, it is not an insult but truth. Toxic people must change, by being excluded from the group/from others until they change. That works/forces them to be alone and toxic only to themselves, or to stop being toxic altogether.

[JamesRandiDebates]

And what if your boyfriend told you "You're just like your mother, she has a loose pussy too."

[NathanDavis]

well, I am... to a certain point, lmao

[TrillXHippy]

True

[Pinay_ako]

My mom is awesome. Therefore I am.

[TrillXHippy]

How sweet 😊

[DesiUwU]

i heavily dislike my mother dearest, so it would probably end up with me slitting my wrists knowing that i was like her

[TrillXHippy]

Oh no I hope you never have to do that 😭

[Anemone978]

I'm not like my mother so I wouldn't care... I would just say something cheeky to cut him and to hurt him deep :P I'm a bitch like that... you fuck with me and I will get you where it hurts :D

[Gibbons44]

So you are like your mother, angry about it, and deluded you are he he happy?

[Anemone978]

@Gibbons44 I wouldn't be angry about it.. I just don't like when people try to think they are better than me... so I like to hurt people when they try to hurt me... Lmao you don't even know what my mother is like... I am actually more like my father that's why my mom gets pissed off at me so much.. LOL I don't have a boyfriend so this is just hypothetical.. So why do people like you attack people when you don't even know shit about them? Saying I'm angry and deluded when I am neither...

[Gibbons44]

You glorify bitchiness. I consider it a criminal offense.

[Anemone978]

@Gibbons44 You glorify being a man I find that criminal...

[Gibbons44]

I'm not your free therapist. I charge for that.

[Anemone978]

@Gibbons44 I think you should be free because you are pretty shit at at it...

[Sainukon]

I would be furious and heartbroken. My mom is not a good person. Being compared to her would be the last thing I ever wanted.

[whtclutgrl]

if he was trying to say it to insult me, it wouldn't work cause I think my mom is awesome, then i'd show him the door

[anon1903]

I'd actually be flattered since my mom happens to be well liked, good looking and let's just say she's got a lot of talents and stuff that I don't, like backup singer skills and beautician.

[anon1903]

Excuse me?

[anon1903]

If you have a vile comment on me or my mom, say so. I'll block your ass.

[Daniela1982]

I would think, And what do you know of my mother? Wait! Mom?

[katiesmuff]

Why would I be offended? That would be a terrific compliment to me.

[sheikalana]

I wouldn’t get offended at all because I know he loves his mom very much and raised him well.

[TheSimFans]

I never got. i always has gotten i look more like my father then my mother. my previous ex boyfriend never said anything like that.

[Nikki1989]

That would be a total insult in my case.

[Agape93]

He'd likely end up getting decked

[Blackcupcake]

he wouldn’t know that

[KrakenAttackin]

Ha! Most women would lose their shit!