Can you ask a guy to prom if it's guys ask girls?

[treugirl18]

Prom coming up and I want to ask my crush to prom. I know he likes me but hasn't asked me. Can I ask him?

[NamerOfStars]

Well, is the "guys ask girls" thing a formal rule, or just tradition? If it's the latter, then yes. If it's the former, then yes- IF you're willing to transgress some taboos. If he balks, just say you identify as a guy.

You might want to avoid doing it in a big crowd, though.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely! In today's day and age, it's becoming more and more common for girls to ask guys to prom. If you feel comfortable and confident in asking your crush to prom, go for it! It's important to remember that prom is about having fun and making memories, and who you go with is ultimately up to you. Don't be afraid to take the initiative and ask your crush, and good luck!

[DollAlone]

This day and age there are obviously no real rules to anything that we have known as the norm for so long. Even if there were rules, i say, do something different, be yourself, make up rules (with legal limitations) and do what makes YOU happy. If you like a guy, ask him to prom or you may lose the chance and miss out on a good time

[Apulu_Imback]

Of course! Give it a go! Such things are always fun and exciting.

[megabamse]

Make a note write something like "would you like to ask me to prom? Ask me later (insert a time) and see what i will answer xoxoxo" and give it to him.

[ThomasDavid1989]

Most dances are guy ask girl. But, you are certainly allowed to, it's just up to if you're willing to risk it

[serious]

Yes why not. Maybe he is just shy, you can ask him that will give him the confidence so yes.

[slatyb]

It's not "guys ask girls" -- there's no such rule. If you want to ask someone, ask them.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Yeah.

[riverrat3]

Ask him

[Anonymous]

yeah sure why not