Have you ever seen extremely beautiful girl but you didn't find her attractive and have you ever seen average looking girl you found attractive?

[Anonymous]

[caring__1]

I have never been drawn to society's version of beauty. To me it looks phony and plastic, and it appears they prioritize making themselves look different than they are rather than make the most of what already exists. That's the problem with society promoting conformity. Rather than appreciating people for their uniqueness, people are encouraged to become clones of an ideal. Since that ideal can never be met, all we end up with are people who feel defective and inadequate.

There's nothing more beautiful to me than natural beauty. Subtle makeup to draw attention to the positive attributes and minimize the negative ones is fine, but I've never been drawn to someone wearing a mask. The harder they try to look beautiful, the more likely I am to feel that's all they believe they have to offer, so I pass them by. I'm more interested in their inner beauty and depth.

How we look depends on how we feel. If we feel smart, we'll look smart. If we feel sexy, we'll look sexy. If we feel loved, we'll look beautiful. If you want your partner to look better, start acknowledging and appreciating his/her special qualities.

[Asker]

Is it true that men judge a woman by her clothes, if she wears jeans and shirts then she isnot marriage material but if she wears something traditional she is marriage material?

[caring__1]

For me, the opposite is true. I'm not drawn to those who dress to impress. The harder a person works at drawing attention, the less attention I give that person. If I wanted a plastic blow-up doll, I'd buy myself a plastic blow-up doll.

[GoodManDave]

Yes on both counts.

There was a girl probably mid to late 40's, and I was late 20's. The guys in a large singles group were drooling and being stupid around her - stupid, but innocent, and not jerks. I wanted to sit with a few of the guys, and ended up sort of being around this girl, who ended up being very stuck up. And for some reason, I was in a mood, so I wasn't about to tolerate nasty behavior without having some fun. I wasn't attracted, wasn't under that spell, and she wasn't so used to it. I was still kind - at first. (B**ch mode activated.) Go to shake her hand, she looks at my hand (it's not gross - nails trimmed, etc), disgusted, snorts, and ignores it. I sit down, unfazed. She starts acting nasty to these guys being simps around her. She clearly thought she was hot stuff and was used to getting everything her way, no matter how mean she was. I kept calling her out on things. (normally, I wouldn't do it unless it was out of hand, but... I dunno... some mood I was in). Last 20 minutes, she pretends to be nice to me, but still a bit rude to these guys, though less so because I was calling her out on being rude. I leave, she wants to shake my hand. I look at her disgusted..."Oh no, you gotta earn it." I guess I could sort of see it; maybe if I was 60... but she just didn't do it for me.

I tend to sometimes go for the sort of shy, nerdy girls, so yeah, I'm sure there's been plenty of girls that most guys wouldn't consider that I thought were very pretty.

[Asker]

Is it true that men judge a woman by her clothes, if she wears jeans and shirts then she isnot marriage material but if she wears something traditional she is marriage material?

[GoodManDave]

Not in my impression. Maybe other guys are different. I mean, I think generally we notice fashion... maybe I notice fashion I like more than a lot of guys, but it's more like... does the color work, does she look professional or sloppy... does she know how to put an outfit together? The basics. I think I would have issues if a woman wore a T-shirt and jeans to a wedding. But a casual date? Fine. For me, as a person of faith, if a woman's boobs are popping out or butt is practically hanging out, then I would be more cautious. Most guys (IMHO) probably wouldn't remember your first date outfit past "you looked amazing." "It was... red? It was... blue maybe?" Lol.

[exitseven]

I have met many average looking girls that had some intangible quality that made them really attractive. I dated one for 4 years. She was just quirky and different from anyone else I ever met. After a while she got better looking to me. Now years later I look at a picture of her and wonder what the attraction was.

[Asker]

Is it true that men judge a woman by her clothes, if she wears jeans and shirts then she isnot marriage material but if she wears something traditional she is marriage material?

[exitseven]

my wife used to wear jeans and tshirts mostly. She was definitely marriage material,

[Makeushiver]

There are plenty of people who seem to have an almost magazine like beauty but without the one or two things that turn beauty from cute to a powerful aphrodisiac. Cotresssnfidence is required for beauty. The type of look that gets my brain working overtime os beauty coupled with intelligence and, forgive me, even a degree of humility. Humility is often confused with humiliation. Very different. Both are ways the ego tries to deal with reality. Humility recognizes that other people, maybe even people you don't like- can be right as least as often as you. High cheekbones are deadly to me. An actress you don't see too much of but who I believe may have been the most beautiful film star the US has ever produced is a woman named Michelle Pfeiffer. I think she is over 75 now but her cheekbones still make her a stunning looking woman. I also cream when I see an attractive woman with strawberry blond hair and emerald eyes- that combination mesmerizes me. I'd love to see what you look like

[RavVid]

Certainly. I would call it technically beautiful but it doesn't appeal. Average girls can attract me more, possibly their body language - I like girls who talk with their hands. It might be bright eyes or just how they interact.

[Asker]

Is it true that men judge a woman by her clothes, if she wears jeans and shirts then she isnot marriage material but if she wears something traditional she is marriage material?

[RavVid]

I don't think it is that categorical. Many decades in the past jeans were hip and an attitude statement in some ways. Today no one would take a second look. I like girls in skirts absolutely.

I think a skirt or better a dress is talking to guys. We don't tits hanging out in a girl we want to marry and we do want a co-operative women which doesn't mean to say without an opinion. Submissive I think is code for agreeable and non-disputative and she is not going to campaign until she gets what she wants.

We don't want more politics at home then there is at work.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Yeah a lot of times I've seen a beautiful girl but I just find her bland... And a girl who wasn't very conventionally attractive but I find myself really attracted to her... It happened

[Asker]

Is it true that men judge a woman by her clothes, if she wears jeans and shirts then she isnot marriage material but if she wears something traditional she is marriage material?

[Rockstarrrrr]

Different guys have different tastes... But I don't think most guys think of it that way...

[Anonymous]

Most extremely beautiful girls I find attractive... at least till the open there mouth. Then it's kind of touch and go. 😆

But yes, I generally find what would be considered more average girls more attractive. Because in general they tend to have better personalities overall.

[Reorx]

Yes on both counts. A beautiful woman can ruin her chances with me if she has a poor personality, happened many times. I find many average women attractive.

[Asker]

Is it true that men judge a woman by her clothes, if she wears jeans and shirts then she isnot marriage material but if she wears something traditional she is marriage material?

[Reorx]

I don't but personally prefer a woman in a dress. I especially appreciate how the fabric clings to her curves, drives my imagination wild though i keep that to myself most times :p Body count matters MUCH more, look into female pair bonding. I'm not saying its right but most men do catogarize women into those groups, just fun & marriage material & more often than not body counts paramount in this regard.

[Asker]

So if a girl wears traditional dress she is marriage material otherwise she is fun material?

[Reorx]

No, how many people she's slept with is the determining factor for most men in this equation.

[Asker]

So why men judge woman by her clothing? U never know how she is from inside, mightbe she pious.

[Reorx]

Men judge for all kinds of reasons but the main reason is what number am I?

[Asker]

What?

[Reorx]

Most men, when choosing is she just fun or is this marriage material? Whar mattets most is how many partners she's been with before him.

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes. I have seen a really hot girl that I thought was very unattractive because she was smoking a cigarette.

[Asker]

Is it true that men judge a woman by her clothes, if she wears jeans and shirts then she isnot marriage material but if she wears something traditional she is marriage material?

[Wise4myage]

Sure, a girl can be gorgeous, but if she has a crappy attitude than I wouldn't be interested in getting to know her.

[Asker]

Is it true that men judge a woman by her clothes, if she wears jeans and shirts then she isnot marriage material but if she wears something traditional she is marriage material?

[Jamie05rhs]

@Asker What the heck? No! The Girl Next Door (jeans and T-shirt) makes a perfect wife!

[smilelots]

Yes for both ,, all the time , we each have something that draws us to one over the other in looks etc sometimes its just the way she acts and carries herself that counts the most.

[Fireguy17]

Yes, many times.
For me it is more about her personality than physical looks.
I actually need to like the person I am with, not just be with her because of how she looks.
Like Judge Judy says, beauty fades, dumb is forever.

[zagor]

Yes to both. Generally because of personality.

Though there was a girl I knew in college who was very beautiful and had a great personality but her boobs were too big for my taste.

[Asker]

Is it true that men judge a woman by her clothes, if she wears jeans and shirts then she isnot marriage material but if she wears something traditional she is marriage material?

[zagor]

I would say no, I love girls in tshirts and jeans.

"Barefoot girls, dancing in the moonlight"

[Asker]

So guys judge girls by their dressing?

[zagor]

Yes, to an extent. But no clothes are going to make up for some one who is just not attractive, in appearance or personality.

[PointTaken]

It happens. If their attitude is shitty, not attractive at all. That goes for all women.

[richardcory]

Sure. Personality matter far more

[MementoMori777]

Yea I think everyone runs into those people

[NostalgiaSenpi]

First, no. Second, yes

[slatyb]

Yes, I have

[Freyke]

No and yes

[dudeinohio]

Sure