Have you ever felt unattractive/not beautiful?

[itsannalee]

Sometimes i feel that i look so beautiful when i see my face in the mirror, and suddenly i took a pic then felt like a potato that time.

Have you ever felt like that?
Which one is the real appearance? Mirror or camera? 😂

[Finchie40]

Yes, I am pretty much back and fourth, just depends on the mood I am in or the people I am around , My ex kind of killed my self esteem and confidence about myself from the shit she would say to me , but before her , i felt a lot better about myself , I don’t consider myself hot , but I don’t consider myself ugly either , I guess just in between. When a girl tells me I am attractive or hot , I tend to not believe her and assume she is just being nice. , so I don’t think to much about it as much as possible , at this point in my life and the shit I went through , i actually don’t care what people think about me , I just treat people the way i would like to be treated that’s all I can do

[ohsheeT]

All the time. My friends and I we laugh about it because even in grade school I would like to high school.. I would never really take pictures maybe once every 4 years or something LOL. And even my friends we've taken pictures together and they save the camera does me know Justice I love 10 times better in person. And I agree I feel the same thing

[itsannalee]

Yes i sometimes when i met strangers, they asked me about my skincare because my skin looks so beautiful. Then when i see on my camera i see that’s my skin kinda dull, i feel like “Are those people lying?”. Lol 😂

[ohsheeT]

Yeah I agree with you it's like the camera doesn't pick up on the coloring or the glow of the moment I think that's the one reason why I don't like my picture taken is because it's just a snapshot

But see if you're out in the sun in the light it's a much better picture

Okay so you're talking about skin care it's winter time here and my face is just drying out what's the best thing to use on it because it seems like the more things I tried the dryer it gets

[7Phoenix7]

I just think you are soooo pretty.

But yeah... many times I look in the mirror and I'm thinking, wow... I look pretty. But then I take a picture and I'm disappointed lmao.

I always have wondered, which one is lying... the mirror or the phone camera? Haha

[EmmaMary]

@itsannalee

I certainly never felt or looked my best on both occasions when I was very heavily pregnant... However much my darling husband tried persuading me that I was absolutely "drop dead gorgeous" he never fully succeeded.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, I can totally relate to that! It's like the mirror is your best friend, and the camera decides to play tricks on you. Honestly, it's all about perspective. Mirrors and cameras capture different angles and lighting can change everything. Your true beauty shines from within, and that's what truly matters. 🌟 Keep smiling and embracing your unique self!

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

A not perfectly flat mirror will lie to you, and a phone camera will lie to you due to lens distortion if you're too close for the shot (selfie case).

[Karmi]

When I was younger there was some back and forth. Now? Not really. I understand there will be people who are attracted to me and those who won’t and it doesn’t bother me or change how I view myself.

[itsannalee]

That’s not the question lol
Read again

[slickrick6600]

I feel that all the time is always when I want to look nice for a girl or when I’m going shopping only then do I feel ugly. My mirror sees the best of me when I’m home and have no plans for sure. Haven’t figured that one out yet

[Garud]

I have never felt that way. Tbh, 2-3 people have told me to my face without any provocation that I don't really look smart. But I never cared about them. I respect my body.
A mirror shows the real face better.

[BobbieBoy666]

Sorry I'm having a girly moment. Um let me think. 😇

Yes, every time I look in the mirror and I don't have a bra on or a top on. I just feel unattractive/not beautiful. Oh, I'm so ashamed. 😢

[BobbieBoy666]

Feeling unattractive and unwanted can stem from a variety of factors, including low self-esteem, negative self-talk, past experiences, social comparisons, and even mental health conditions like anxiety or depression; it's important to remember that these feelings are often not a reflection of reality, and seeking support from friends, loved ones, or a therapist can help you manage and overcome them.
Potential reasons for feeling unattractive and unwanted:
Negative self-perception:
Focusing on perceived flaws or imperfections in your appearance, often leading to harsh self-criticism.
Comparison to others:
Comparing yourself to unrealistic beauty standards portrayed in media or comparing yourself to others around you.
Past experiences:
Negative comments or experiences related to your appearance from others, including bullying or rejection.
Low self-esteem:
A general feeling of not being good enough, which can extend to feeling unattractive and unwanted.
Anxiety and depression:
Mental health conditions can distort your perception of yourself and magnify negative thoughts about your appearance.
Social isolation:
Lacking strong social connections can contribute to feelings of being unwanted.
What you can do:
Challenge negative thoughts:
Identify negative self-talk and actively replace it with more positive and realistic thoughts about yourself.
Focus on self-care:
Prioritize healthy habits like exercise, good nutrition, and enough sleep to improve your overall well-being and self-image.
Build self-esteem:
Engage in activities that make you feel confident and accomplished, and celebrate your strengths and positive qualities.
Seek professional help:
If these feelings are significantly impacting your life, consider talking to a therapist who can help you address underlying issues and develop coping mechanisms.
Connect with supportive people:
Surround yourself with people who value and appreciate you for who you are.

[ehatsham_hussain]

All person are attractive and unattractive.
I think
Someone tell me good looking
And someone bad looking
It's a mystery.

[NathanDavis]

no, that's not something I've ever have to be concerned about... (and this is not me saying that I am "beautiful" lol)

[CVNT5]

oh baby lemme inside your bedroom and ill make u feel beautiful😜👉👌💦💕re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[TonyMetal___86]

Sometimes, it depends on the angles, not every photo is successful unless someone is super photogenic

[Iron_Man]

I think everybody feels that way from time to time

[MrCharlie13]

Yes, lately I do... And cameras have filters. Mirrors don't lie

[nawtee_me]

You are definitely not a potato…. You are absolutely gorgeous

[khadiismine]

Yes I fluctuate between feeling pretty and unattractive but one thing about me is I never hate on the next female.

[katiesmuff]

I think we all have those times!

[Anonymous]

Yes, all the time.

Why?

I'm single and still a virgin, what else do you need.

[Hotboy_booblover]

Yes always whenever I look at myself in the mirror..

[Moogus]

Very very rarely, after my pregnancy and because the way my x was treating me I did for a bit

[chrissykerdock]

yes often then i ask guys most give me a 6

[itsannalee]

I think you look hot

[Nikki1989]

Thankfully, nope.

[Jennz6]

Every time I look in the mirror

[itsannalee]

You are beautiful Jen 😘

[Jennz6]

Thank you dear

[Ironco]

I do the same, Jen

[Awantika03]

I am too pretty

[NicholasRedone]

My acne scars / 😭

[lilBigPotato]

That's wrong with being a potato? 🧐

[lilBigPotato]

What's*

[Bklynbadboy12]

You wouldn't know anything about that you're gorgeous

[Drumlin2001]

Yep. Every day of my life

[WonderingManII]

I've been told that I'm ugly.

[jahaims]

in my opinion I'm not attractive

[MasterKS]

No, i never felt that low confident.

[itsannalee]

It’s not about low confidence, but feel about what we see on the camera doesn’t look the same in the mirror.

[MasterKS]

@itsannalee thankfully not happend to me.

[itsannalee]

You mean both ugly?

[MasterKS]

@itsannalee real as it is.

[Dreamclouds]

you shouldn't you are really beautiful

[Aphrodite2001]

Mostly when I’m bloated and cramping.

[Anonymous]

Yess 😛 you are potato.

[beefcakebradybatson]

WHY WOULD I?

[itsannalee]

Because you old.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Old and cover boy handsome, lady !!!

[itsannalee]

That’s still expired grandpa 😉

[beefcakebradybatson]

Not in MY case, babe !!!

[Joejay6]

Mirror