Feeling Ugly & Undesirable?

[Anonymous]

Hi ladies, Before I start, i just wanna be clear that I dont mean to blow my own horn here, I am just going by what i've been told by many people - which is that i'm very "good looking". But lately i've been wondering something for a long time now. Back when I was in college, I used to get a lot of attention from girls - lots of smiles, eye contact and hook ups. Not gonna lie there was even an instance where a chick stopped her car just to gasp and check me out lol... and I'm kinda socially awkward at times and not very extroverted.

But these days that all suddenly stopped... barely anything about me has changed, still look the same etc etc. But I feel like girls don't like me anymore? - zero eye contact, no smiles, avoidance, no hook ups... is it just society that's suddenly changed, is it post pandemic related psychology?, is it a new "thing" for girls to be that way?

All this has left me in total confusion and am quite lost at the moment... perhaps some girls can shed some light on this.

PS. I am referring to ladies between ages 16-30

[devilish-cutie]

it could be that you just seem like a hookup guy and older girls want something more serious and youger find you too old

[Asker]

Err.. alittle confusing reply this..

Are you just assuming I'm a "hookup" type based on my appearance or..

[devilish-cutie]

yeah some guys totally look like fboys, its not just looks, its also the energy, style etc.

[Asker]

So you're saying I look like a fboy? am I reading this right 🤔

[devilish-cutie]

I am saying it is possible they see you as fboy