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There are a lot of interesting studies on the perception of beauty in regards to attraction. Turns out the 1 - 10 scale system is not linear, its logarithmic, meaning it's a large jump from a 2 to a 3, and a small jump from 8 to 9. Due to the nature of this, the average is a 6, not a five. When put to the test, people chose partners who fell between -1 and +1 their own numbers. The factors that place you on the 1-10 scale come down proportions and symmetry. Then you have factors such as scent. People who smell the best to us are the least genetically similar.. natures way of preventing incest for genetic variability. So... turns out it's all relative based on your genetics and how porportioned or symmetrical you are when it comes to being attracted to others.
Thanks for the MHO!
I've dated girls, but most I met online before seeing their face, and I think all my ex girlfriends are still beautiful. In fact, I regret breaking up with one because I loved everything about her (Sadly, my mom said I couldn't have a girlfriend online, which is understandable on my mom's end)
What have you done with a girl
Yes because I was intrigued with who she was. I realised I didn't and broke up with them as soon as I could.
There was a post recently about someone who didn't like being called beautiful because she didn't think she was herself. I don't think that girls understand what guys are saying when they call someone beautiful.
what are they saying?
Beautiful to a lot of people is seen as an aesthetic compliment sort of on the level of 'your hot' but if a guy finds a girl beautiful then it's not about them being physically attractive.
For me the time I've realised how beautiful I've found a girl is it's when she's been I'll with no makeup on looking like death or when she's been upset. A beautiful girl is so much more than a hot girl.
None of the above. Yes I have dated unattractive girls. No, I did not use them for sex (okay, so I did with one of them in high school. Regrets.). I did not dump them due to their looks. No, most of them did not have a beautiful personality.
So why did you date ugly girls?
I ask myself that question all the time. Wasn't like they had stunning personalities or good looks, or any particularly redeeming qualities.
Great question though.
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Yep.
On a scale of 1-10 she was about a 4 (just below average).
She was really outgoing, very kind, and highly intelligent. We went out but didn't get very romantic. It wasn't because of her looks, she was just very shy and insecure in that area. Stopped going out because I got transfer orders.
Years later I ran into her. Wow, talk about a late blooming swan. She was having a blast rejecting all the guys that hated on her in her earlier years. She was like "Look at me now boys!!"
She was, and still is great.
Oh yeah. There are other attractants some of which I don't fully understand. One unattractive woman was a natural red. I can't explain it but red gets me hard and her scent just took over and she was far from attractive. I also liked her voice and she was a lot of fun.
Who doesn't find "personaluty" hot?
In all seriousness, there has to be an attraction. Attraction is a concept not an absolute, so you could find her body or parts of it attractive, her face, or her mind, or even personality.
I once was at a concert event and watched this woman dance in the crowd. I can't say she was beautiful or physically desirable but her dancing was amazingly attractive.
Yes and no. Because I don’t really have a type... at all😂 so everyone I’ve ever dated looked good to me AT THE TIME. But looking back now, I’ve realized that I don’t find the guys attractive at all. Just the women☺️💕🏳️🌈. They still remain beautiful in my mind, but the guys... like... what was I thinking 😐😂
I've dated several girls that many wouldn't consider beautiful, but they were beautiful to me. Some of their physical features may not have been molded by the gods, but their personalities and what not made them far more beautiful than some shallow beauty queen.
Someone with a beautiful personality immediately becomes beautiful to me. Someone with a horrible personality immediately becomes incredibly ugly to me. Why would I want to date an ugly person?
Most guys are shallow creatures. When I wasn't as attractive, over weight I definitely dated not the so attractive. I ended up losing weight, adding muscle and attracting better looking women because I was tired of the "not so attractive women" because that's what society says... So the question is yes and no. Also for me I am still attracted to larger women... Lol.
So young considered the girls you dated to be not so attractive?
I guess but now I look back on some and sure they were in my opinion pretty obese but for me I love plus size women but not to a point where they're slipping into a waist band pants.
Beauty is in the mind of the perciever. Just because I didn't find a woman attractive at first, it didn't order new from at least trying to get to know her because whether or not you find someone physically attractive can change, at least a little.
One girl I thought was average at best with makeup on. But she had a great body, great sex and was a sweetheart. I broke up with her because she was overly needy. I've grown since then and wouldn't dump a girl now because of neediness. I'd find a solution. Looks attract, personality keeps.
Well, I've hardly dated anybody.. But, I was into a girl who I didn't exactly find "beautiful".. But I liked her, and she was attractive to me.. So.. Yeah in a way..
Ex was no looker. She was friend of friend, came highly recommended, and we had spoken for a couple of months by text before meeting up. By that point i was interested in her as a person, her looks didn't matter to me.
I voted yes, but it was a few guys. I dunno, I'm not very affected by how hot a guy is as long as I find him a bit attractive. A nice smile is really all I need.
Yes and I will do that again..
Yes not completely ugly.. But personality and what she can offer matters the most ( not talking about sex )
Depends upon person to person
So the girl i dated she was very unattractive but i thought i liked her personality she ended up having an ugly personality too. Neber had sex with her never did anything with her. Could barely stomach to kiss her.
*never
Physical traits have shared importance with personality traits. A woman who's not beautiful to my eyes is called a "friend"
I've dated a few girls I did not find attractive, to figure out whether or not I'd like their personality enougn for it to be a non-factor. None of them were.
Seriously I took plenty of chicks out had a gang of fun with them to not all we're that good looking they we're just really cool chicks and fun to be around but then again I'm a very kinda IDGAF kinda guy
Can’t date someone I don’t find attractive. Which doesn’t mean it has to be a 100000 but someone I think is attractive to me
Yes, but because I was in another country for the time being and was really bored; it's somewhat boring to sleep alone, if you know what I mean.
Yes. And until now she is my best friend since more than 20 years.
Yes, my first girlfriend wouldn't be considered attractive by most standards.
I have done that, yeah. It was mostly a convenience thing, but she had a very charming personality. She actually dumped me.
I have. Her confidence and spontaneousness made me instantly like her.
Shame we broke up after 4 months :/
Yes, but at first she seemed to be quite pleasant to be around. Then I came to realize that she was looking at the end of a dead-end job and wanted a meal ticket.
Yes. I don't date women I'm attracted to, attractive people are usually narcissistic and entitled and my judgement can be impaired by beauty.
These days I just stay single.
Beauty comes in different ways (color and size...)
So yeah, for me. She was indeed beautiful ;)
Does it count that she got HUUUUUUUUUUGE, and became a lesbian just after?
Yes and apparently that was my biggest mistake yet in dating
Never dated a fugly.. but God damn I've ended up nut deep in a few
Yeah, I'm pretty flexible in that regard. If she's not lower than a 4/10 then why not?
@FarinaLee... sssoooooo I'm a big for having low standards for looks or what? I don't get it..
She was cool as hell and down for any sexual thing i wanted how could i say no
This was when i was in high school thank you very much talking shit about something you know nothing about have a good day
Even if she isn't the moment I start loving her she is the most beautiful to me
^ EVERYONE LISTEN UP THIS IS A TRUE MAN RIGHT HERE
Yes I dumped her as I didn't even see how dumb I was being.
I will not waste my time with an ugly women. If I don't like a certai n girl, I'll just friendzone her. I don't lead people on.
I have never dated a girl I had no sexual attraction to.
Physical beauty isn't everything if you have fun and get along well why not
Beauty is a bonus.
But yes, I have.
And fuck, was the sex amazing.
Dated no, but hit on cause I needed someone to take home for the night yes.
No bcz the kind of person she is is only known after talks and talks are approached i gjess based on physical appearance
Of course. But what the outside looks like is the beauty of the malchin, it has to be found throughout it, not just to run after a visual
Tbh, I didn't find my current girlfriend beautiful at first. She wasn't really my type.
how about now?
How come that changed?
Nope, maybe I wasn't attracted to them physically. But I alway found them beautiful. On the outside, or on the inside, or both.
No but she was physically beautiful but her personality what made her ugly when I was in High School.
Every one finding beautiful girl but me find the beautiful heart
having a beautiful soul is the most beautiful thing anyone can have
Yeah 2 of my exes weren't attractive but could make me laugh and keep it interesting
If I had one I would tell you. However as long as they care for you past eternity ridden then I'd say you got your empress, but hey I'm just saying heh
Yes and got married twice.. looks are not everything
It's nothing like beautiful, gorgeous or anything. It depends on your feelings.
Yeah, had nothing better to do at the time
Impossible. All women are beautiful
wow, you're a man and you're not an asshole
or he could be fishing for attention. Don’t tell me you haven’t found one woman unattractive
It’s not true and it’s very easy to prove
No, I have never dated in my life.
Why do you have only those 3 options?
Because I was bored and you still have the possibility to add your own in the comments if none of them fit!
Single since 4000 B. C. 😂 😂
Yes I have. Her personality sucked me in.
Why did it end?
Beautiful? No. Cute, yes.
Ofcourse they do. all a chick needs is a vagina
For men it is
Yeah for about 5 years.
Beauty isn't only on the outside.
I've never dated anyone before
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