It seems like most women will get pissed off if the guy (politely) straight up says he just wants a hook up or friends with benefits. Even if she is thinking the same thing she will have a slut complex about. I also notice that many women say they like it when the guy is looking for long term. However guy goes to slow and chivalrous in the beginning she might end up seeing him just as friend (this is the worst possible outcome if he really liked her). She will get bored and find some exciting asshole to get her needs met and then turn around and friendzone. I think our society has gotten worse about this.
But really have you ever had any sort of relationship with a guy who tells exactly what he wants when you just met him (hook up all the way to long term/marriage)? I tried this in the past with always bad results.
I’ve had women and even other married men (who have forgotten how tough dating is) saying I should be straight up from the get go. But this has never worked for me in the past unless the timing is perfectly right. I always have to show my intentions by actions vs. just saying it outright.