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Am I single because I only date well off guys? (Page 2)
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I believe that most women think the way you do. It is just that men have been battered down by feminism and their minds are damaged by social media that their are not enough guys in your category to match with all the women, so those guys can be picky. There is another issue too.
Men used to have to make a commitment to a woman for sex.
That was courtship and marriage.
Women wanted equality and freedom.
This is the unintended consequence.
I’m waiting until marriage to have sex
i don't know those are normal requirements, but the economy is so bad now that it is unlikely to find someone who has it all together like that
mainly i think social media raises women's standards too much by showing them imaginary things they can't have
It really is. I just want stability in my life
As someone mentioned before, drop the requirement to have a degree.
I work closely with a couple millionaires, and both of them don’t have a college degree.
One is a former United States Marine Core squad leader. He’s a really solid dude. Already married of course. He’s 30, and he makes 7 figures a year. No degree.
You can go for driven, ambitious, successful guys that don’t have a degree but you know will go places.
That’ll help you out.
I think it is somewhat short-sighted as there are a lot of guys out there that have made gazillions and never had a day in University or College, becasue they couldn't afford to.
So, they went the opposite direction and made something of themselves from scratch, which is very commendable.
No there should be a substantial pool of guys with those criteria and you sound reasonable. it's something else.
Reality is, girl that is always ready, aggressive, has dating skills... knows how to turn up the heat and read guys and get things going, wins more often.
I agree the girl friends, you have to go for his heart.
You want someone who will financially take are of you, and who (I think you are saying) is educated with a good career path. That isn't unusual, so what about you is unusual that those men would want you.
(serious question, there might be lots of things). If you are looking for educated men, do you have interests that will match so you have things to talk about?
It's funny you posted that question cause I have a degree in electrical engineering and I owe my own home but when you date guys like this you have to have something to bring to the table yourself. So ask yourself what are you bringing to the table and maybe that will give you some clarity on why your single
Oh so you’re smart smart lol
I'm gonna message you
Okay
Yes lol Even if you married a rich dude the likelihood that you will be miserable in a huge house with a Tesla is very high. Please consider the men making 85 K and are normal people who will actually love you lol
85k in the UK is rich 😂
This is a major reason why younger women are attracted to older men. They're more likely to have stable careers. Of course that doesn't always work for every guy, because I've got a good career but remain extremely single. Oh well. 😂
Yes I like older men for that reason…they feel more “manly”. Like they can take care of you sort of thing.
Yes. All while drinking chocolate milk. Maybe I answered my own question. lol
Haha well chocolate milk is elite!
As long as you're sipping it with your pinkie out, like at tea time. 👍
Imagine that haha
Good afternoon! Did you finally get some sleep last night? 🤔
No you are not a Gold Digger in my opinion. That's pretty realistic expectations but expecting a guy to give you everything all in one is really hard for you.
And in my own opinion most people do pay the bills. How else do they live? But if you want someone who has a separate house and so on and so forth then you need to realize. These things take time and energy and Blessing of God.
Plan an simple ur asking way to much it makes u look like a gold digger for real no one an I mean no one wants a FUCKING gold digger they might be fun for 5 minutes but not for long it never works out an the truth always comes out u know what they say what's done in the dark is going to come out in the light.
Think about it would u want a Man who is like that HELL NO u wouldn't.
God Bless
wanting to be financially well taken care of is good, but your university requirement doesn’t speak very highly to your intelligence level. Job security and pay no longer correlates with a degree…
Could you please give me an example of a stable career without a university degree?
Stable in the sense that we can move countries too if we ever felt like it.
Literally anything in the tech industry
I also grew up in a family with a lot of financial stress, that’s why I became a programmer. Never spent 1 day in uni or college
Oh don’t you need a degree to be a programmer? Maybe it’s different in the UK
No, you don’t, a lot of poorly read people think you do but it’s not true, at all, for any country, and keep in mind many jobs are remote so the country has little bearing on the job you get (although if your English is weak that will limit you)
Half the people I work with don’t have degrees hell they didn’t even all finish highschool. And it’s not just programmers either. My buddy has no post secondary or highschool and he’s a successful QA engineer
And I should add, I really, really hate people who judge others based on their level of formal education. The modern college and uni system is a fking IQ test and if you enter that brainwashing sheep mill you fking lose!
It’s not about judging people. I grew up in an environment where when the care giver lost their job they struggled to have something to fall back on. I don’t want that for my future family.
First of all, that is judging people, don’t pretend it’s not.
Second of all, you’re judging by the wrong criteria.
That is all.
It's mainly because you unable to keep a guy, but yea being a gold digger does not helps.
What do you mean? I’ve literally broken up with all my boyfriends lol never dumped
Didn't it makes it worse? how could a man trust you after you has did all that?
One cheated, the other abused me and the third one was mama’s boy
I think you know what you prefer, and 95% of men need not apply. I didn't see you use the word "Love" once. My Ex-Wife talked like you. Some might call that a golddigger.
Love definitely has to be in the equation. Having both stability and love is what’s making it hard to find the guy.
Then it's time to consciously put Love into your mantra!
Will do!
Likely yeah. Most young guys don't have any fucking money. It takes years to build up wealth and equity. That's life. You gotta find a young man that loves you, works hard, and won't leave you. And stick with him. Make sure the sex is good too, that's important.
I thought you were single because all you can find is superficial one dimensional guys while you wanted a wholesome relationship with a real connection and commitment... Now you sound like you're one of those people that gave you hard time lol... It's time to play their game.. That's the only way to make it in this world, right? xD...
Men who are well off are the least faithful
if they can meet your requirements then they can meet a lot of other women’s also
This is also what my father said 😂
this is why a lot of women who are married to athletes and celebrities just accept that they’re gonna be cheated on because too many women throw themselves at well off men it’s hard not to cheat
That explains a lot!!! No wonder they cheat so much! I thought a lot of men were just cheaters
Nope. The dating market just sucks. But pay them no mind. So many guys want traditional women, but they don't like hearing that they don't make enough to make it viable.
That's probably one of the reasons. Likely not the only one.
? You mean
I mean that's probably one of x number of reasons that you're single.
So you are a gold digger? Really?