One of my requirements in the dating world is that the man is 27 years old +, that way he’s had enough time to graduate university, have a job and a car (some of my exes even bought their homes, they were engineers and doctors etc).
This is because I want to be financially taken care of. I’ll still work but I don’t wanna be the breadwinner.
The university requirement is because I’ve seen what it’s like to lose your job and then struggle without having something to fall back on.
I have a fear of reliving that experience especially for my future kids.
Do you think this a reason why I can’t find a man?
I have a degree and a job of my own.