Do you think it's likely for girls to respond positively and then ghost on a dating app just because they're asked out to a bar?

[Rab1901]

Is it because drinks are often tied with hookups or is there something else or is there likely a different reason than because of the bar? I know there are other reasons. I'm just wondering about the likelihood

I know there are some girls who are happy to get a drink in her system, so she can loosen up, and maybe she wants to hook up too, but what do you think?

Extremely likely

Likely

Unlikely

Very Unlikely

I'm a guy/No attraction to guys

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Just to clarify, when I say positively, I mean really positively

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I would appreciate any specific details. :)

[Tyrael]

I think so yeah. Especially since girls expect you to read their minds, it's best to play it safe and arrange to meet somewhere neutral.

Dinner is a bad idea cause you're trapped in shitty company if it goes badly, and you're paying for it.

Drinks is too much like asking for a quick fuck, and unless they've expressed that then you shouldn't assume it is the goal.

Go with something like bowling, where drinks are an option but not expected and you have something to actually do so you're not just waiting on conversation.

[DizzyDesii]

Only if those specific girls are catfishes OR if you’re unattractive to them OR if you asked too soon

[Rab1901]

Ohh I was gonna add that too. The too soon thing. I def think I could be guilty of that, but sometimes girls want to know time and place before anything lol. So difficult because a guy doesn't know what kind of girl he's working with.
Also in terms of physical attractiveness, there are def guys more attractive than I am when messaging these girls, but I know I am good with these first messages so I'm guessing sometimes she's weighing out if the messages and personality outweigh the attractiveness without personality.

[DizzyDesii]

If a guy asked me out same day he met me it would be a no. I would have to talk for a minimum of a week wherever i met him. Then we’d go offline. Then we gotta talk at least a total of 30 days (including the minimum week above) before i go sit down somewhere on a date with this man. I normally know in 2 weeks if i even want to still know the person. So no a date is not happening before i know this man