How should I talk to a woman I'm trying to get with?

[WeirdoFriendly]

Is there a certain conversation I should stay away from or should everything be on the table? Is being pushy or cocky bad? Should I just not try?

[Screenwriter]

Getting with? You mean for sex? Well, being up front is tricky, but honesty makes it clear what you want. Some percentage of women are also looking for hookups. Being straight means you won't be wasting time.

[pink_blah]

Are you trying to talk to her over text? Or in person?

[WeirdoFriendly]

Both? I'm trying to be myself but I want to be upfront about what I'm looking for and I don't think it's going well

[pink_blah]

Okay well maybe talk to her over text because you could say something wrong in person yk. But have you guys talked before? Does she know you exist?

[WeirdoFriendly]

I'm not speaking about anyone at the moment. I just need to know what I could do to help my chances when I do find a woman. Do you have any advice on what I should talk about at first? Should I compliment her or act unattracted?

[pink_blah]

Ohh okok. So when you go up to a girl don’t overwhelm her with compliments 😭 its kinda awkward yk. But compliment something she's wearing or be specific, just dont be creepy and catcall her or something. Next, ask for her name, and give her your name. Also ask for her age and stuff. Just dont ask for too much info. Then you could be like “what are you up to?” Then ask for her number “can i get your number?” If she says she has to go or she has a boyfriend or she isn't interested or something just tell her to have a good day, dont be angry or weird about it. Also i dont think you should go up to every girl you see, maybe the ones you think are special

[WeirdoFriendly]

Okay 👍🏻 would you mind dming me? I'd like to learn more from you. If you'd allow me to

[pink_blah]

sure

[tesniolite]

wanting to get with her can't be the only reason you're speaking to her or you'll fail miserably

[WeirdoFriendly]

No.. not just sexually. But also romanticly