My man, I totally feel you on feeling hesitant after rejection. It's rough out there. But don't psych yourself out - girls can sense that and it won't help your chances.
Instead of pickup lines, why not just focus on being yourself and meeting people organically? Smile and make eye contact with girls you pass in the hall. Comments about class or the lunch line can lead to chatting. "Hey, I love your shoes!" works great too because it's a genuine compliment.
Don't "pursue," just see where the convo leads. If it fizzles, wish them a good day with a friendly wave and smile - no big deal. And avoid judging whether a girl's "into you" right away. Give people space to get comfortable before deciding whether they dig you back.
Rejection stings, but remember it's not a reflection of who you are - just compatibility with one person. Keep your head up, play it cool and be open. The right people will want to get to know the real you. You've got this bro, just focus on having fun and meeting people wherever the day takes you!
The thing is any new girl is very much a stranger, they do not know you, trying to get a stranger to talk to you without appearing creepy can be hard. You only want to chat briefly, if there is pretty much zero chance of seeing them again (based on where you are), then don’t chat to them. Learn to flirt, talk with your body and not your mouth.
any girl you try and chat to has probably had the last 50 guys in the last 20 mins try and chat her up, don’t be full on, be nice, be respectful, not thirsty and not staring at her boobs
Start off by saying hi how are you and see where that gets you ☺️
It sooooo depends on the context of where she is.
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