I was seeing this girl for a few months. Who was doing hard to get. At a point after I confronted her and admitted then disappeared for 2 weeks. Then came back was really hot or super cold.
So after a week of that I was like I've had enough I need a someone who was a bit more mature. And broke it off.
A few days in, I reached out to a mutual friend to ask whats up and they let me know that this person has been through stuff thats why. I asked them to convey if they want to talk (I knew she didn't like this, but too proud). At this point I kinda understood whats up.
Later I get a message from her on whats up and it was angry. So I decided to take a step back try call and txted her agreeing Id been a jerk and scared being in abusive things. Her choice to get back to me.
An hour later I got was a very long angry text, she was annoyed about having asked the friend and went on a personal attack on my maturity and stuff. Felt this was too much and parted ways. She misunderstood that I was forcing a relationship, where infact all I had asked for is better communication at this stage. She was angry that I was opposed to being friends if it didn't work. I was actually laughing for at it and the misunderstanding that was a big deal than it was. I actually understood it was her insecurity talking why shed been that way, but wasn't going to be an ass. Tried to reach her, with no response txted back. But didn't quite tell her whats up, just apologized respected in short, pointed out we need to communicate and took my leave quickly. Next day passed, sent a meme too see if she responded and calmed down.
With no response in few days guessed, its done, cut off communication, I know she's the yoyo type. So decided to move on and I did, I kinda figure she's great but there's a few big red flags. Actually Im seeing someone new now.
Will be a month soon, wondering if I should reach out and not to get her back, but to apologize or clear out the misunderstanding? hate leaving it this way.
So after a week of that I was like I've had enough I need a someone who was a bit more mature. And broke it off.
A few days in, I reached out to a mutual friend to ask whats up and they let me know that this person has been through stuff thats why. I asked them to convey if they want to talk (I knew she didn't like this, but too proud). At this point I kinda understood whats up.
Later I get a message from her on whats up and it was angry. So I decided to take a step back try call and txted her agreeing Id been a jerk and scared being in abusive things. Her choice to get back to me.
An hour later I got was a very long angry text, she was annoyed about having asked the friend and went on a personal attack on my maturity and stuff. Felt this was too much and parted ways. She misunderstood that I was forcing a relationship, where infact all I had asked for is better communication at this stage. She was angry that I was opposed to being friends if it didn't work. I was actually laughing for at it and the misunderstanding that was a big deal than it was. I actually understood it was her insecurity talking why shed been that way, but wasn't going to be an ass. Tried to reach her, with no response txted back. But didn't quite tell her whats up, just apologized respected in short, pointed out we need to communicate and took my leave quickly. Next day passed, sent a meme too see if she responded and calmed down.
With no response in few days guessed, its done, cut off communication, I know she's the yoyo type. So decided to move on and I did, I kinda figure she's great but there's a few big red flags. Actually Im seeing someone new now.
Will be a month soon, wondering if I should reach out and not to get her back, but to apologize or clear out the misunderstanding? hate leaving it this way.
