What is the best way to approach a female for an encounter like this?

[Anonymous]

It has been quit a long time for me since I have had sex. I have been going though a very rough break-up and due to the Heart ache I was going though I was not ready for any kind of relationship including a sexual one with anyone. I am now Ready to get back into the Dating game but I have been my own worst enemy when it comes to dating because I have been feeling this great need for sex that I tend to have become a little to busy looking for it.

What I am asking here is do you think it would be a good Idea for me to find a girl to have a no string sexual encounter with so I can tone down my need for it right now?

If yes how or what is the best way to approach a female for an encounter like this. I am not sure I would want to go to one of my female friends for something like this because I don't want to ruin the friendship that we do have by adding sex to the picture.

And since I am sure that someone may ask me this I will put it out there. It has been a little over six years since I have done it an Masturbation is not cutting it any more. Lol

[archer86]

IF you are a young, fit, tall and great looking guy then finding a FWB is easier. But this is still not so simple as picking up bacon at the food store. You want a woman? Go for it. But you must decide if you want a FWB(sex partner) or a one-night stand. If it is the latter, save up about a few hundred dollars and hire a top-notch escort depending on where you live. If you are near Nevada(assuming you are American)...SWEET!

Having sex does not leave a long lasting satisfaction, sex is very similar to hunger. You will always have Primal Urge which are the following:

1. The instinctive need to feed= hunger.

2. The instinctive need to rest= sleep.

3. The instinctive need for shelter= be indoors for inclement weather.

4. The instinctive need to breed= sex.

These forms of Primal Urge are constant yet are only satisfied on a very short term basis. Thus you will always want sex. Only a question of how to suppress it...and why do that?

Good luck dude

[johnsmith2116]

There's nothing with having the need. Two places that you can get it from is a bar, and craigslist. Org. Friends and I have done that in the past, and it does work, because there are women also out there who are looking to fill a need.

[Anonymous]

Like another poster said, there ARE women are out there looking to just fulfill their sexual needs. The best thing is honesty and communication. Some women want a night stand, too and others may enjoy the FTF. Some of us are too busy for a relationship as well. Seriously.

Best thing is too, don't lead her to think you want more when you don't but don't act like a jerk, either.

You need a woman who's aware of what she wants and not someone who's going to think that by having sex with you, you'll want a relationship with her. Think Samantha from Sex and The City. And, who knows, YOU may fall head over heels over HER so just be sure she's straight up with you, too.

It can work but it's going to take some emotional awareness from both parties.

[kimberlyinspired]

There is always blow-up dolls. I need me one, so I can have tea parties with... yeah!!

[Asker]

Do you Know where a good place to buy one is?

[kimberlyinspired]

If there is a strip club near by, there is always a shop close at hand. I like the costumes there.

[Anonymous]

Don't do the just sex thing in the end it's not worth it emotionally

[Asker]

Even if my lack of sex is being my worst enemy right now trying to find a girl?

[Opinion Owner]

Think about what kind of girl you want? What do you want from her? Are you just looking for a place to stick your dick. Or are you looking for someone to be with, someone to talk to and have fun with. When you use someone for just sex you cheapen them.

[Asker]

I do want to have someone that I can ave something that can last but right now, in your words "having a place to stick my dick" I think is what I need to get myself calmed down to look for what I really want a Long term relationship

[Opinion Owner]

Well the only thing stopping you would be your morals, if you don't mind treating someone like an object that is just there for your pleasure. Go for it. Remember that it is quite hard for a woman not to develope feelings for someone she is sleeping with even if you tell her it's just sex, the mind does not control the heart at any time.