I tried aprroaching couple times it was after the bars shut down and everyone was leaving so i saw few girls walking so just started speaking with them few seemed on a rush and i think they had families so didn't worked at the end i just stopped walking and turned around cuz they were to fast :D Than i saw this russian girls i appraoched but i started speaking in English so they though i was a foreigner it was much more easy for me to speak in English the chat went smoothed they even took picture with me.. and added me on facebook but i think they were married as i understand :D The problem i have is i don't know how to start conversation and what to speak :D
I mean you just seem to have bad timing there. Why wait until everybody is ready to head home?
Too many women are aggressive? I just want make it home without being followed.
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I live in Europe :D i dont think someone call cops for that
Then go on with your bad self.
After clubs close down :D
I meant more like on dating apps
if you dont give me advice i dont care what you have to say probably you were ridding on dicks so suggesting the same thing for others :D
I think it’s still legal in America.
you mean when feminism wasn't invented than it leads more than 60 years back L:D
But then how else do you meet someone you don’t know? Going out in public seems like the best likely option to meet someone somewhere.
Why is she doesn’t like it and slaps you, hits you or calls you a jerk for initiating unwanted touching?
*What if she doesn’t like it
YouTubing what are you talking about? Why? That sounds creepy!
@dray995 Just do it or keep hovering aroound wanting to do it. 1/10 will be an immediate slut
Why not? What’s wrong with wanting to make friends with strangers?
@dray995 I have enough friends.
Lol. I think being dressed like that would probably creep most people out though but it would still be funny.
Why is that?
None like it? Why is that?
Because it's the safe assumption. Perhaps once upon a time it was more tolerated, but if half don't like it and condemn you for it, then taking that action is a coin toss with your fate in the balance -- while inaction has a known outcome. It's easier and safer to pursue different avenues in 2021. If women overwhelmingly wanted to be approach like that then they would make it a viable avenue. But as long as half of them say otherwise, that's already beyond the threshold where it's no longer stable and I won't do it anymore. I've done it in the past, I've had success and failure, but in this day an age, they've convinced me to take any action and it's better than the women who want it complain and suffer in it's absence rather than the women who don't want it condemning me.
Have you ever gone with someone like that?
Nope never the only time i remember meeting a guy like that was appropriate because it was outside of a club when I wasn’t let it for an ID and cute guy who was passing by asked if I wanted to hang out with him and his friends instead of the club so I did
I seeCould it get any further? I mean having any plan after the club
What do you mean? Why would there be a death wish or going to prison over talking to a stranger in a public place?
Have you read the MeToo manifesto?I'm guessing no because that's what happens when you violate the rules
That has nothing to do with talking to a woman in public.
So you admit to not reading the manifesto thenEven being in the same place as a women without supporting witnesses is a terrible idea
So? Maybe she wants a guy to talk to her or is looking for that. You never know until you try, right?
Yeah, I’d think if she’s walking faster than normal, she’s probably in a hurry or running away because she does like being around strangers.
Really? I never knew that. Good to know!👍🏻
I don’t think that’s a thing. Conversation isn’t assault.
Of course it isn't, but the random people you approach on the street don't know you're not trying to harass them, do they lmao
Yeah but assault and harassment aren’t the same thing. I’m no legal expert but I think harassment only applies if you’re stalking someone or talking to someone that you know doesn’t want to talk to you. It doesn’t apply when approaching a stranger on the street.
But that's not what I'm saying. What I'm saying is that regardless of if you're doing anything wrong, you're still gonna be accused of that, y'know? It's part of being a guy now. You've got to stay a hundred feet away from these people or you'll be scaring them.
But why worry that something will happen that in all likelihood probably won’t happen. Most people that are out in public aren’t crazy psychos that just wanna have you locked up. They’re normal people but maybe shy or awkward around strangers.
Tell that to the girls who clutch their keys when you walk on the other side of the road. Or the ones who pre-dial 911 when they see you're sitting on the next bench over on the subway. I'm not saying it's right, but for the sake of your own time, it's better just to deal with what people are gonna think about you and not cause trouble for yourself. Surely you understand where I'm coming from.
I under that even if they’re afraid of strangers, most people aren’t likely to call the cops over a random stranger casually approaching them in public. That actually sounds completely paranoid and like anti-social behavior. Can’t worry about what you don’t know will happen. In all likelihood it won’t.
Dude, I don't know what world you live in, but that happens all the time. Every single day, people are arrested for that, whether it's rightful or not. You can give up on the idea that it wonder happen, because I guarantee you, every woman you appraoch on the street is thinking the same thing. "Who the fuck is this creep?"
Yeah but most still won’t call the cops on you. That’s like the most rare scenario and not likely to happen.
By the way, is that profile picture of you in the photo?
Not sure why that matters... Why do you ask
Because if that’s a picture of you, that might explain why people are responding to you that way. Your appearance might be considered scary or creepy for some reason and might really freak them out if approached by you.
It's makeup, not permanent or tattooed on. I don't walk around looking like that lol. But if looking like that would freak people out, there's bigger issues to be solved within how people see appearance vs the actual person's personality
Okay, just curious then, what exactly inspired you to put on that makeup? are you an actor, a model or was it more like a Halloween costume?
Damn, I wish I was a model. I'm actor actually. But I'm sure you understand my hesitation in saying that publicly.
I live in Europe :"D
I don't know what females are like over there.
Dont care at all.. its the only language I know so you can piss off
:D Thanks for opinion not really helpful :D i know your having a bad day so you just had to let it out good for you.. good luck :
I found the man of my dreams off okcupid so it does happen.. I couldnt be happier
Online dating sucks for most guys.
I had no idea
Your a woman, you get matches. The average guy for 100 swipes he makes *maybe* will get 2 or 3 matches, and those girls are either going to ghost his messages or are sex workers.
Wow thats rough! Yikes!
What do you mean?
@dray995 I mean A man of character should not be ruled by his dick.
Sounds like an interesting idea. What do you say after that?
@dray995 tell her that Hi, I am so sorry. Did you hurt anything? I wasn't looking sorry. I think you are pretty. do you like me? do you want to go out with me sometimes? (girls like compliment about her cute or pretty and there are few people telling her that if she is really beautiful. she will fall for that a lot.)
Industry? What do you mean?
I doubt it. That’s not rape. That’s conversation.
Why not? What’s wrong with wanting to make friends with strangers?
@dray995 99% of people want to be left alone
I have small teeth. Not a big worry.
Ever had to babysit? Small teeth still hurt.
Lol... Good to know!