Nope never the only time i remember meeting a guy like that was appropriate because it was outside of a club when I wasn’t let it for an ID and cute guy who was passing by asked if I wanted to hang out with him and his friends instead of the club so I did
When they are not in a hurry and you have some time to actually talk to them (of course they could always pretend they have to meet someone somewhere else). Such occasions are very rare.
The best way is do NOT approach , you will more than likely piss her off , as she will likely be focused on going from A -B and getting on with her life.
Well if they're not making eye contact with you they probably don't want nothing to do with you. so don't approach them think of their feelings not yours
There is a high chany that it won't work because women in the streets usually heading somewhere and have no time for this , especially if she walks faster than normal.
Just don't. You're gonna get assault charges for trying to talk to them like that. It's only going to end bad for you. Do it in a social setting so people know you're not being a weirdo
Yeah but assault and harassment aren’t the same thing. I’m no legal expert but I think harassment only applies if you’re stalking someone or talking to someone that you know doesn’t want to talk to you. It doesn’t apply when approaching a stranger on the street.
But that's not what I'm saying. What I'm saying is that regardless of if you're doing anything wrong, you're still gonna be accused of that, y'know? It's part of being a guy now. You've got to stay a hundred feet away from these people or you'll be scaring them.
But why worry that something will happen that in all likelihood probably won’t happen. Most people that are out in public aren’t crazy psychos that just wanna have you locked up. They’re normal people but maybe shy or awkward around strangers.
Tell that to the girls who clutch their keys when you walk on the other side of the road. Or the ones who pre-dial 911 when they see you're sitting on the next bench over on the subway. I'm not saying it's right, but for the sake of your own time, it's better just to deal with what people are gonna think about you and not cause trouble for yourself. Surely you understand where I'm coming from.
I under that even if they’re afraid of strangers, most people aren’t likely to call the cops over a random stranger casually approaching them in public. That actually sounds completely paranoid and like anti-social behavior. Can’t worry about what you don’t know will happen. In all likelihood it won’t.
Dude, I don't know what world you live in, but that happens all the time. Every single day, people are arrested for that, whether it's rightful or not. You can give up on the idea that it wonder happen, because I guarantee you, every woman you appraoch on the street is thinking the same thing. "Who the fuck is this creep?"
Because if that’s a picture of you, that might explain why people are responding to you that way. Your appearance might be considered scary or creepy for some reason and might really freak them out if approached by you.
It's makeup, not permanent or tattooed on. I don't walk around looking like that lol. But if looking like that would freak people out, there's bigger issues to be solved within how people see appearance vs the actual person's personality
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Throw a ball at her. If she catches it you can approach her.
Or have a dog, that way she will approach you.
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Depends on the girl. I actually like cheesy pick up lines like "Did it hurt when you fell from the sky?" lol
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You don't. You're looking at false rape accusations and sexual harassment accusations at best. Women are best avoided.
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Obviously they’re going to tell you it depends on the girl, but that obviously means that the practical approach is that none like it... so don’t do it at all. Simple.
Because it's the safe assumption. Perhaps once upon a time it was more tolerated, but if half don't like it and condemn you for it, then taking that action is a coin toss with your fate in the balance -- while inaction has a known outcome. It's easier and safer to pursue different avenues in 2021. If women overwhelmingly wanted to be approach like that then they would make it a viable avenue. But as long as half of them say otherwise, that's already beyond the threshold where it's no longer stable and I won't do it anymore. I've done it in the past, I've had success and failure, but in this day an age, they've convinced me to take any action and it's better than the women who want it complain and suffer in it's absence rather than the women who don't want it condemning me.
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First , invent a time machine and go back a few decades to when this was accepted behavior.
Second, make sure you are extremely good looking.
Third, have an attorney on retainer.
you mean when feminism wasn't invented than it leads more than 60 years back L:D
Be tall and really attractive. Words mean almost nothing anymore.
If she looks at you more than once or smiles at you more than once I would say it’s safe to say hello and ask for social media or number
Have you ever gone with someone like that?
Nope never the only time i remember meeting a guy like that was appropriate because it was outside of a club when I wasn’t let it for an ID and cute guy who was passing by asked if I wanted to hang out with him and his friends instead of the club so I did
I see
Could it get any further? I mean having any plan after the club
When they are not in a hurry and you have some time to actually talk to them (of course they could always pretend they have to meet someone somewhere else). Such occasions are very rare.
That would depend on the person. For me, I don't like being approached on the street at all. It's better to do it in a closed social setting.
The best way is do NOT approach , you will more than likely piss her off , as she will likely be focused on going from A -B and getting on with her life.
So? Maybe she wants a guy to talk to her or is looking for that. You never know until you try, right?
Well if they're not making eye contact with you they probably don't want nothing to do with you. so don't approach them think of their feelings not yours
There is a high chany that it won't work because women in the streets usually heading somewhere and have no time for this , especially if she walks faster than normal.
High chance*
Yeah, I’d think if she’s walking faster than normal, she’s probably in a hurry or running away because she does like being around strangers.
Statistically and without context that is the stupidest thing you can do. You have a better chance of her approaching you.
People in the street dont have time for this Maybe in the parks, libraries, clubs etc. but not out of nowhere middle in the street when she is busy
I think it helps to remember that some women will not be into you - and some will.
Hitting on women is not about convincing every woman to like you. It's about finding the ones that do.
Really? I never knew that. Good to know!👍🏻
Just don't. You're gonna get assault charges for trying to talk to them like that. It's only going to end bad for you. Do it in a social setting so people know you're not being a weirdo
I don’t think that’s a thing. Conversation isn’t assault.
Of course it isn't, but the random people you approach on the street don't know you're not trying to harass them, do they lmao
Yeah but assault and harassment aren’t the same thing. I’m no legal expert but I think harassment only applies if you’re stalking someone or talking to someone that you know doesn’t want to talk to you. It doesn’t apply when approaching a stranger on the street.
But that's not what I'm saying. What I'm saying is that regardless of if you're doing anything wrong, you're still gonna be accused of that, y'know? It's part of being a guy now. You've got to stay a hundred feet away from these people or you'll be scaring them.
But why worry that something will happen that in all likelihood probably won’t happen. Most people that are out in public aren’t crazy psychos that just wanna have you locked up. They’re normal people but maybe shy or awkward around strangers.
Tell that to the girls who clutch their keys when you walk on the other side of the road. Or the ones who pre-dial 911 when they see you're sitting on the next bench over on the subway. I'm not saying it's right, but for the sake of your own time, it's better just to deal with what people are gonna think about you and not cause trouble for yourself. Surely you understand where I'm coming from.
I under that even if they’re afraid of strangers, most people aren’t likely to call the cops over a random stranger casually approaching them in public. That actually sounds completely paranoid and like anti-social behavior. Can’t worry about what you don’t know will happen. In all likelihood it won’t.
Dude, I don't know what world you live in, but that happens all the time. Every single day, people are arrested for that, whether it's rightful or not. You can give up on the idea that it wonder happen, because I guarantee you, every woman you appraoch on the street is thinking the same thing. "Who the fuck is this creep?"
Yeah but most still won’t call the cops on you. That’s like the most rare scenario and not likely to happen.
By the way, is that profile picture of you in the photo?
Not sure why that matters... Why do you ask
Because if that’s a picture of you, that might explain why people are responding to you that way. Your appearance might be considered scary or creepy for some reason and might really freak them out if approached by you.
It's makeup, not permanent or tattooed on. I don't walk around looking like that lol. But if looking like that would freak people out, there's bigger issues to be solved within how people see appearance vs the actual person's personality
Okay, just curious then, what exactly inspired you to put on that makeup? are you an actor, a model or was it more like a Halloween costume?
Damn, I wish I was a model. I'm actor actually. But I'm sure you understand my hesitation in saying that publicly.
A gun is better than a knife. And tie her up before you start cause she could run away. Also don't forget protection.
The best way is you don't, especially these days and if you live in north America.
I live in Europe :"D
I don't know what females are like over there.
Just be like him, but continue to keep the bridge up always
https://www.youtube.com/embed/LPOlk22eftgLol. I think being dressed like that would probably creep most people out though but it would still be funny.
@dray995 YEAH
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if you dont give me advice i dont care what you have to say probably you were ridding on dicks so suggesting the same thing for others :D
Throw a ball at her. If she catches it you can approach her.
Or have a dog, that way she will approach you.
Depends on the girl. I actually like cheesy pick up lines like "Did it hurt when you fell from the sky?" lol
You don't. You're looking at false rape accusations and sexual harassment accusations at best. Women are best avoided.
Obviously they’re going to tell you it depends on the girl, but that obviously means that the practical approach is that none like it... so don’t do it at all. Simple.
None like it? Why is that?
Because it's the safe assumption. Perhaps once upon a time it was more tolerated, but if half don't like it and condemn you for it, then taking that action is a coin toss with your fate in the balance -- while inaction has a known outcome. It's easier and safer to pursue different avenues in 2021. If women overwhelmingly wanted to be approach like that then they would make it a viable avenue. But as long as half of them say otherwise, that's already beyond the threshold where it's no longer stable and I won't do it anymore. I've done it in the past, I've had success and failure, but in this day an age, they've convinced me to take any action and it's better than the women who want it complain and suffer in it's absence rather than the women who don't want it condemning me.