What Is The Best Way To Approach Women?

Question

Ladies what is the best way to approach y'all. Obviously be respectful but do I introduce myself first with my name? Do I ask for hers. I just hate trying to talk to women and it sounds like I'm doing an interview. Also I hate beating around the bush, i want to get straight to the point letting her know I'm interested but I also don't want to come off desperate. I can't say I've ever cold approached a women so any advice from Men/Women would be great..

BobbieBoy666 · Accepted Answer

The best way to approach a girl is by being confident and respectful, starting with a natural, context-based conversation, and paying attention to her body language. Approach from the side in a non-threatening way, smile, make eye contact, and start with a simple, observational opening or a direct but polite compliment. If she doesn't seem interested, gracefully end the interaction and move on.
Before you approach
Choose the right time and place:
Avoid interrupting her if she's busy, rushed, or has headphones in. Public places, social events, or a coffee shop can be good settings.
Check her body language:
See if she is open to interaction. If she is engaged in a conversation with friends or looks stressed, it might not be the right time.
How to approach
Approach from the side:
Walk at a similar pace and position yourself slightly ahead of her, so you are in her peripheral vision. This is less jarring than walking directly in front of her or sneaking up from behind.
Be confident:
Stand tall, make eye contact, smile, and speak clearly. Even if you're nervous, try to project confidence.
Start with a natural conversation:

Observational opener: Make a comment about your shared environment, like a book she's looking at or a band playing.
Direct but polite: A simple and direct approach can also work, such as "I know this is a bit random, but I just wanted to say hello" or "I found you attractive and wanted to introduce myself," according to this Reddit post.
Compliment her: Offer a specific and non-physical compliment, like on her jacket or shoes. Avoid commenting on her body, and definitely do not touch her or her belongings.
Share a little about yourself:
After the initial greeting, briefly share something about yourself to build a connection and make the conversation more natural.
What to do next
Gauge her reaction:
Pay attention to her responses. If she reciprocates with questions or enthusiastic conversation, she is likely interested.
If she is not receptive:
If she gives short answers, avoids eye contact, or tries to walk away, accept it gracefully and leave. Simply say, "It was nice meeting you," and move on.
If she is receptive:
Continue the conversation and, if it feels right, suggest exchanging numbers or meeting up for something like coffee. Giving her your number instead of asking for hers can also be a way to give her control.

DrPepper12 · Accepted Answer

Gonna hand the mic 🎤 to NWA and let Ice Cube 🧊 explain...

"See I'm from the street, so I know what's up

On these silly games that's played by the women

I'm only happy when I'm goin' up in 'em

But you know, I'm a menace to society

But girls in biker shorts are so fly to me

So I step to 'em, with aggression

Listen to the kid, and learn a lesson today

See they think we narrow minded

'Cause they got a cute face, and big-behinded

So I walk over and say, "How ya doin?"

See I'm only down for screwin', but you know

Ya gotta play it off cool

'Cause if they catch you slippin', you'll get schooled

And they'll get you for your money, son

Next thing you know you're gettin' their hair and they nails done for 'em

And they'll let you show 'em off

But when it comes to sex, they got a bad cough

Or a headache, it's all give and no take

Run out of money, and watch your heart break

They'll drop you like a bad habit

'Cause a brother with money yo, they gotta have it!"

HollyK21 · Accepted Answer

I feel like @abbycado and myself already had a chat with you at least twice, both conversations pretty lengthy. Ultimately what this comes down to is you having the nerve to approach a woman. There’s no use worrying about what to say or how to say it when you can’t even get yourself to walk up to her.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Be a Gentleman, Not a Doormat: Be courteous (hold the door, offer to pay on the first date), but maintain your self-respect and boundaries. Kindness is attractive; being needy or desperate is not.

ohsheeT · Answer

Then if you hate all of that do t do it approach her like you've known her forever say, Hey, what's your name? I am blah blah blah and just go for it, don't even think about she's a brand new person in your life or whatever, because she's not she's a human being respected her, like she's your mom talk to her like she's your mom or your sister or your grandmother or smart a** But it has to be the right type. You can't just do it. Never mind look into her eyes when you talk to her and speak. Say what's on your mind?
It's not an interview is 2 people talking. That's it, smile, have fun. Don't worry about it, that's the biggest problem. If you walk up there, worrying about something, it's going to happen. So forgive it all , let it all go and just stop with respect

AviatorTom · Answer

Casually walk up to a woman you're interested in and say "Hi". Don't walk too fast or get too close, though. You don't want her to feel threatened. Worked most of the time for me.

Amy_Mi · Answer

Approach her like you already respect her not like you’re trying to win her.

Don’t come with lines, come with intention.

Don’t seek to impress, seek to understand.

Because women of substance don’t fall for noise they recognize energy, presence, and clarity.

A real woman doesn’t need you to perform, she needs you to be real.

So the best way to approach her?

With calm confidence, emotional intelligence, and the kind of silence that speaks louder than flattery.

In short approach her like she’s a queen, and make sure you walk like a king.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

The best way to approach women is to get a good haircut, clean clothes, an outfit that makes sense. If you're a bum, dress like a well put together bum. If you work in finance, dress like you work in finance. If you work at a service job, stay casual. You get what I'm saying? Women expect you to dress like a cartoon character and the artist said "what would this character be wearing?" Because they're trying to figure you out.

Talk about things that are fun to talk about and make sure you show off monetary or social wealth in some subtle way. That's like crack to them.

Zack-Bann · Answer

It’s one of the hardest learning curves but when you get over it the whole thing becomes easy forever
Unfortunately you need practice
You need to do the “interviews”
You will naturally calibrate to keep things fun and interesting

And most importantly you will forget that you’re “talking to a lady” as a reproductive mechanism and just be socializing in general

Kelley1 · Answer

The best way to approach a woman is to tell her you have a job that she believe has a high income, and to look like this:

Then it doesn't matter what you say. Don't listen to the political correct lies, when you first meet a woman, it is 70 percent looks, 20 percent apparent income, and only 10 percent clothes, words, apparently personality, and attitude.

RxR0954 · Answer

I would say compliment them. When i was single i would go with calling women pretty after exchanging some eye contact. I would say eye contact is the first clue to know if the person is interested in having a conversation with you or not (i always withdraw if they look uncomfortable)
It also depends on the settings, if it’s at the club or dating events, that’s fine. But if the settings is on the street, at work, school, or places that people doesn’t go to seek out dates , i wouldn’t do it.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Insult her. Just walk up to her and her friends and look her up and down then say “those shoes ruin that whole outfit”. Then turn to the rest of the group and ask, “Ladies are you with me on this, I can believe none of you told her”. Then laugh and introduce yourself. Be ready to get dumped on by the entire group. But sooner rather than later tell her that her sense of style caught you attention. Maybe they forgive you.

Yoursweetgirl · Answer

Tbh I can't think of it. I just hate in general when men approach me, no matter how they do that, I always feel disrespected and like they have a lot of audacity.

Ngl if I liked someone and they approached me first I'd hate them immediately lol

bunnyboo24 · Answer

Say Hi and ask for something like "do you know if this train goes to (X) station?" See if she is nice and helpful and if she is say "you seam very nice" and if she responds positive ask for her number.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Don't know if it's the best, but dogs have great success with women. So do your hair up all bushy and go up and sniff them. It's worth a swing eh?

Chayce · Answer

In this day and age, make sure you look good. The bar is so low that being in shape levels you up exponentially. Whether it be in person cold approaching or online with a sick dating profile.

JHNS98 · Answer

I don't know the best way, but  don't  chase her around all day. Hopefully I don't need to say that

i_Jedi · Answer

Be confident, not creepy. Smile, make genuine conversation, and don’t overthink it. Like Jared Laurence teaches, it’s all about good energy and authenticity, not pickup lines.

MJVillarama · Answer

Just be confident and natural , say hi, introduce yourself, ask her name, and let the conversation flow. Don’t overthink it

captain_voidwalker · Answer

The best way to approach women is be 6' or taller, have 6 pack abs, and drive a 150k$ or more expensive car. If you don't meet this criteria, don't approach women they don't want you.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't say y'all, it's trashy.

Anonymous · Answer

don't bother. just be attractive and let the rest do the work

Anonymous · Answer

Like this:

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know because I never approach, I'm too shy and introverted, so I really can't make the first move, I need a self-confident girl who likes to take initiative.

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

To scream and wave your arms in the air as you run away from the danger of selfish feminist women who want your money 💰

LiamJHayden · Answer

Joyfully. And if she is not interested, leave graciously.

Vegasrunner · Answer

TBH it's not how you approaching a women it's where you approach her that matters more.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

No pickup lines;just converse with the lady.

msc545 · Answer

Not doing it at all is safest. If they want anything from you, they will approach you.

Godihateyou · Answer

Don't. Ever. They hate that shit. They hat you. They hate men.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

I just say, Hello, if she responds better way, then I invite her for coffee

Anonymous · Answer

Work on your insecurities issues because woman can smell over 250 miles.

blackeagle007 · Answer

I usually wait for them to approach

Raydergman26 · Answer

Be kind and start slowly

ZinniaRose3430 · Answer

Respectfully and genuinely

Anonymous · Answer

You can only be somebody else so much

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