What’s to have game? Do I have game?

[NYlatefun]

I always thought I had game. But according to my friend, I don’t… here’s why he’s saying that: I am usually not the one making the move. Either women talk to me or my friends make the move, but regardless of the situation I make things happen. I’m quite good at that, way more effective than my friends. But I rarely initiate conversations or approach women.
It just happened to me last week, I was at a bar and two women sat next to me, one started talking and I ended up with one of them.

so, do I have game or not?

[Apple1996]

You definitely have game just naturally by being yourself. It's kind of a ick if a guy tries to hard to have game tbh

[NYlatefun]

Thank you! That’s very nice!
And I agree, I hate to try too hard, I def want to show interest but not being annoying.

[Apple1996]

Yes ofc. You are very attractive looks and personality wise so you do not need to try hard

[NYlatefun]

Thank you! You’re so sweet! 😘

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

That's even more game from my perspective if you don't even have to try. That's rock star level game.

[NYlatefun]

@GuyAnswersGirls123 lol you guys are making me feel very good!
But seriously, my friends point is that being able to approach a girl and get her to talk to you is what’s having game.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

From my perspective, a guy who swings a hole in one every time doesn't need any putting skills. There's no need to approach if women approach you and you get your pick that way. At the end of the day, if a guy can pull girls, he has game to me, and actually even more if he doesn't have to try nearly as hard as others.

[bobalife]

You most definitely have game….

but I also like genuine men who doesn’t play games.

[NYlatefun]

So then having game is jot about being “aggressive “ and pursuing a woman. It’s about being able to make them feel comfortable and like you.

[NathanDavis]

I don't play games...

[NYlatefun]

Two different things, play games is not the same as having game.

[NathanDavis]

I don't need game

[NYlatefun]

Oh ok