Do men actually want women around?

Question

According to men, women are horrible. They’re avoiding dating or any kind of relationship with women. So, really. There’s no need for us to exist anymore.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

Yes! I love women!

Beginning when I was 16, I always had a girlfriend or was in search of one. First, girls are soft, squishy, fun to hug, and wonderful for sex. When a girl tilts her head up to gaze adoringly into my eyes, I melt. But I also loved having a female for a best friend to hang out, go places, do things and go on adventures with, and to chat with and confide in. Women are delightful. I adore their their feminine voices and behavior.

I love holding hands or walking with our arms around each other. I love that they trust me and feel safe and secure when they are with me. I love being admired for being able to reach high objects, open jars, carry heavy things, build and repair things, or for my athleticism and boldness.

To be adored, admired and respected by a good woman is an honor. And I adore, honor and respect them equally.

I've been married now for going on 27 years. My wife is wonderful and I don't know what I'd do without her. We've had so much fun together. We are best friends and equal partners. We trust each other completely.

JHNS98 · Accepted Answer

If you ask me - which you do - then yes, I do want women around. I have... I actually think I might have more female friends than male friends. The current state of the dating world is really hard to relate to, so I appreciate your concern. If the concept of dating ever truly dies, it will be interesting to see which paradigm develops in its place.

I'm not really the type of person to cheer people up, because I myself feel that cheering up doesn't really help me. That being said though, you probably need to meet some new friends, as well as a social media detox.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Lol of course men want women around. Even if it’s just to use women for their pleasure, it’s still wanting women around

The real question; however, is does women want men around. And I’m pretty sure any person with common sense would know the answer to that considering for CENTURIES women have been treated as subhuman and only around for men’s pleasure, cooking for them, cleaning for them, their enjoyment to abuse, and populating the earth (while taking care of the children). Fun😃. That’s all women have been good for for men for centuries. Women aren’t oppressing men so why would men be sick of us except the fact that many women are tired of their bs and they can’t beat most women into submission anymore, making them feel oppressed instead lol.

Being a woman is not some sort of benefit. Being married is not some sort of benefit for women. Having children is not some sort of benefit for women. It’s women who are tired of men and their psychotic bratty tendencies

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Girl, what men are THESE? I don't know them. There are always difficulties in relationships of two different people of two different sexes. But sexual attraction smooths over some of this and the need for companionship is the other equalizer.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No! I LOVE women and I very much want a woman in my life. I proposed to my girlfriend three weeks ago.

AviatorTom · Answer

Of course we men want women around. Women make life interesting, and we men can't get pregnant on our own... we're not sea horses.

Anonymous · Answer

I think we have a bit of a selection problem just like women. A lot of women who do date are soo spoiled for options that they treat most of them very poorly.

Most of the same women also happen to only really be interested in a small minority of men who are likewise soo spoiled for options that they treat the same women very poorly.

Both problems really come from our inability to deal with the modern world of mass media which makes the super attractive seem far more common than it is.
As a result unless your dating a loser they may not value you soo much.

Gent207-2 · Answer

Okay you are 30 years old, where the fuck is this nihistic pity party coming from?

You should know there are good and bad people in the world. After 30 years you don't want to be with anyone that drains your energy, wastes your time and does not contribute to your goals or your peace of mind.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I don't think they are horrible?

I enjoy my conversations/friendships with women and it doesn't have to be about a relationship.

I actually prefer girl-friends over guy-friends. I've travelled with some of my girl-friends in the past when we were both single. It was fun just to have a friend to travel with and enjoy their company. They liked having a guy-friend to travel with that was trustworthy, had similar interests and would share the cost.

TooHot2Care · Answer

Ughhh…. It’s complicated.

on one hand, I love the Gremlin energy y’all bring.

I find your bitchiness hot when it doesn’t go go too far.

On the other hand…. Spend too much time with some of y’all and weeeeelll you say some “thangs”…..

David4358 · Answer

depends on the woman I suppose. there is bad women just like there is bad men, so I guess if a guy has had a sting of bad luck with women then I could understand that sentiment, Its no different then a woman swearing off guys when she has had a bunch of bad guys in her life. It happens

Anonymous · Answer

Oh, no. You're starting to feel the way we have felt for decades. I feel so sorry for you. We've been wondering for quite a while what makes women even bother with men. We're such horrible, abusive, dangerous, stupid, disappointing human beings that it makes no sense why women even bother talking to us.

Just wait, though. When you start seeing men post stuff like #killallwomen, those feelings get waaay more "interesting".

CB-Raido-Time · Answer

I saw where you asked do men think all women are the same and the answer is no and neither are all men the same. A lot of men have chose to avoid women yes and some have chose to avoid all women and it's not because all women are the same for them making that decision. Fact is all women have the same potential to do harm to men with the same system.

TruthBringer · Answer

Yeah, I do want women around. REAL feminine women. Not your average modern feminist we see a lot nowadays. My girlfriend is traditional and hates feminists as much as I do. For years we are in a wonderful relationship reaching new milestones.

mark000h · Answer

Men love women, they just hate feminist, strong, "i don't need no man, I'm sexually liberated" type women.  But men couldn't go on without women.

JBlade · Answer

Most men would say yes for obvious reasons. Personally, I’ve generally had very poor experiences with most women in my personal life but will say I’m indifferent despite that.

lightbulb27 · Answer

yes but I think there's times in life where ya don't. not all men. most men on this site are clamoring for a girlfriend, so many can't find them. ditto girls.

AdithyaR · Answer

Only incels and those immature "alpha, sigma" mambabies say things like that.
Normal guys of healthy mindsets definitely do want women around, be it as friends, partners, family, colleagues, peers, mentors.

TheBootyChest · Answer

I want men to not be around as much anymore. I prefer to be around women more than men. But I don't get that feeling in return.

mb120101 · Answer

Sounds like you aren't around great people. Men like women around.

Unit1 · Answer

Of course. I love women. Places like these exist just for men like me.

Anonymous · Answer

I love women... but I love my freedom more so don't date etc. But I enjoy the time I spend around them at work. My primary focus is freedom and my life purpose which will change the world.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I know my husband wants me around. He expresses his love for me every day.

richardcory · Answer

I like being around women even if there is no chance of romantic interaction.

LazerBean · Answer

It's only a small group of reject men who say things like that.

Shamalien · Answer

One can only be lied to, betrayed, and used so many times before they grow a little resentful. I’m sure most women understand this feeling

WhyohWhy69 · Answer

I think you need to lay off the Manosphere channels.

DarkLegacy · Answer

Oh well, yo should not have allowed yourselves to be influenced by all this feminism nonsense

notwoke · Answer

we need vagina, but otherwise I agree with you. In the past 20 years we've taught women to be completely intolerable. It wasn't always like this

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I want women around, no matter who they are.

_Troian_ · Answer

So who we going to fuck if we don't want women around?

Still-alive · Answer

I do. Women tend to be more empathetic and understanding in my experience so having women present for that is always a plus.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

I think they're wonderful people. I unfortunately am unable to convince someone to be with me, but that's my fault, not women's.

Mansearching · Answer

I want my girlfriend around. As much as possible.

es20490446e · Answer

Many modern women are horrible indeed. It's a fact.

buckaroobradyjr · Answer

Of course we straight lads want hot ladies around !!! They're GREAT to ogle, hit on and bed.

LiamJHayden · Answer

What? I think you are listening to the wrong guys.

OddBeMe · Answer

I do. 99% of the time relationships aren’t sex.

Anonymous · Answer

I Love most women and enjoy how different they are. It keeps things interesting.

Anonymous · Answer

"There’s no need for us to exist anymore." ... you know your life can exist outside of men right?

4ngelic · Answer

not according to men, just incels

FilmGuy93 · Answer

A lot of us love women.

Iron_Man · Answer

Why would a man not want a woman around?

mommymommy · Answer

Women, can't live with em, can't live without em

gorydetails · Answer

Of course, I can’t suck my own dick.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

We want you around about 10% of the time.

Blurr090 · Answer

Where did you get this idea from?

Dreamclouds · Answer

Some women are a blessing some aren't

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Of course

jimmy2 · Answer

No we do

Anonymous · Answer

I know I sure do.

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