At what body count would you start thinking a potential partner is unattractive?

[Anonymous]

1-2

3-4

5-6

7-8

9-10

10+

20+

[Anonymous]

Typically 9 but there’s a guy in my life right now that I’m really really into, and he’s got a sex addiction so his body count is probably hundreds 😔 it’s kinda unattractive, but at the same time he’s an amazing person so it’s strangely not turning me off from him. He uses sex as some sort of medication and his friends are pretty worried about him. He even knows he has a problem but won’t admit it fully. He said it’s a healthy coping mechanism instead of being a drug addict or something. Right now we’re just friends (that are very attracted to each other) but I’m scared of going further with him for OBVIOUS reasons. He gets tested all the time tho cause he knows he’s a manwhore, but I’m still kinda nervous. Plus he said he doesn’t want to have sex with me cause I’m a virgin and it’s “not fair”to me for some reason, but I know he wants to. I just have no idea where we’re going to lead !
I hope he gets better :/

[Valkyria]

I'm glad to see that he's respecting you, but this looks like infatuation rather than love on your side.

[tesniolite]

right well since im 16 i will be a put off if any of my potential partners, people my age, have anything more than 1 or 2
but in reality situations vary and depending on the situation that can also vary completely
a lot of people have their first time when they're 13 cause they just made a real connection with somebody and you can make multiple real connections and that happening doesn't make somebody unattractive
that's just one example but u get the idea

[RockyHammock]

Age for context matters. An 18 year old with 10 bodies is a red flag, but a 60 year old with 10 is expected. I wouldn't consider dating a girl with 10 bodies at my age

[Berethor]

Anything more then 0, there is stats are showing that non-virgins are less trustworthy.

[Boomchakalaca]

Id say that age would play a role. For example, if a guy was 21 but had a body count of 6 id would pass on that. If a 21 year old guy had a body count of less than 3 id find that ideal. Just my preference! I find virgins VERY attractive

[WonderBell99]

Anything more than 4 becomes deeply unattractive (guys around my age).

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Why only 20 max? Is this like a Christian conservative right-wing, Bible-thumping, never do sex before marriage forum?

[BungusHighFivePizza]

You get an intoxicated couple of weeks and that's already 20 or more, isn't it? Why just someone for a couple of weeks of being lax on their judgment?

[BungusHighFivePizza]

My bad. I don't understand what "why just someone" meant above. Maybe "why judge someone?". I think that makes sense. I don't really know what I'm saying. But this is like virgin Sunday school numbers. From my standpoint, 20 is like practically a virgin. Only 20?

[mark000h]

Disgusting.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

@mark000h Dick-sucking faggot.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

@mark000h Which makes total sense. You gots suck dick and do anal left and right and don't count it as sex, right? You Christian/Muslim pieces of faggot shit?

[BungusHighFivePizza]

@mark000h Pedophilia also. I imagine your "disgusting" comment might only relate to the fact that I have sex with adult women.

[Valkyria]

You do realise that the reason it's unattractive is that the answer is in the question? It's a body "count" for a reason, there is no value to it. The people are numbers, not people. You're even admitting such if you think 20 is prudish.

[BrookeAZ90]

There's really no way to consider this without the age of the person in question.

[abc3643]

Depends on the age, but anything above 10 is abhorrent no matter what the age.

[mark000h]

Anybody who does hookups or friends with benefits is immediately not relationship material.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Armchair quarterbacks, LOL! It's like someone obese telling Michael Jordon how to do a layup. "DERP DERP DERP!" "Einstein was wrong! The earth is flat! DERPA DERPITY DOO!"

[msc545]

It would be the impulsivity and impaired judgment that typically goes with high body counts, especially in women, that would be off-putting for me.

[TheSpaceGnome]

1.

I'd rather be her first and last.

[JSmuve]

Depends on the age.

I'd say max = age/3 - 5 up to a max of 5.

[noohair]

The term body count was used in the Vietnam War. Past history matters to immature people. I don't live in the past so I don't even go there.

[Valkyria]

Why are people who sleep around mad that people who don't sleep around won't sleep with them?

[noohair]

@Valkyria I can't speak for anyone else.

[Boomchakalaca]

😂 hail 🫳🏻

[Tregh]

I would allow 0-1. That’s it. I have standards.

[DermalPunch]

At one. Murder is wrong!

[Quackthulu2]

Okay but why are all the numbers so low?

[Degenerate]

In what realm is 20+ low?

[Quackthulu2]

@Degenerate Are you kidding? You can hit 20 in a busy weekend.

[Degenerate]

@quackthulu2 to the average person, that is outlandish lol

[Boomchakalaca]

They are high and low numbers lol

[slatyb]

It's not something I worry about.

[AaronKrieger]

Around 3 - 4 for those around my age.

[exitseven]

double digits, it shows a lack of committment.

[Danny_dan92]

Anything double their age

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I'd feel weird being with the town bicycle.

[LiamJHayden]

Unless she tells me how would I know?

[ColHathi]

What do I vote if I wouldn't? 🤔

[4ngelic]

60+ or so

[4ngelic]

but its not necessarely a deal breaker or anything its just the point for me where it starts to be too much