My boyfriend is unemployed. Im depressed and frustrated because he never has money to take me on a date. Do you think I should give up on us?

[Anonymous]

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He is trying to find work but still no luck

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He been unemployed for months by the way

[Steelcore5280]

You said he's been putting in effort to find a job for a bit. The fact you even asked this question with those details in mind makes you look, in my opinion, shallow. If you truly love him and he's doing whatever he can to try and find employment again, in this really garbage economy we are currently in, this wouldn't be an issue.

If he was being a slacker and wasn't actively looking, then yes, that'd a problem. But thats not what you said in the details of your question. He's trying. Asking this question makes you look bad.

[richardcory]

Is he trying to find work? Also, you shoudl work so you never need to worry about having money

[Boomchakalaca]

My boyfriend was broke but would always try and take me out even if it was mcdonalds. I admit, i got mad about the mcdonalds date cuz i dont eat junk food. I was 16 now im 21 still with that guy. I dont think u should give up just bc of money. If u like the guy’s personality then money shouldn't cloud it. If you are looking for a guy to buy ur lifestyle then maybe he isn't the one for u rn but who knows, right person wrong time

[Minahh]

Well you can have nice dates without a lot of money. It's the effort that matters. If he doesn't put any effort in, break up.

[NotTacocaT6969]

Do you love him more than you love having money spent on you?

[pethouse]

What’s going on with him mentally? What are his plans and does he have motivation? How long has he not had a job for? How old is he?

[Boomchakalaca]

All those variables need to be established in the question.

[Asker]

@Boomchakalaca well he is 23 and been out of work for months. He don't want to work around a lot of people or deal with customers. He don't want to work in groceries store or restaurants.

[Boomchakalaca]

He could work at amazon. No interview required. 🤷🏻‍♀️ back breaking job tho

[pethouse]

So he has some sort of social anxiety?

[pethouse]

Ether way he needs to get a job, when places are hiring they don’t like seeing a long period of unemployment, jobs are so easy to get these days, a lot of places don’t even care about criminal records these days

[slatyb]

What is he doing to find work? Is he just refusing to take any of the work available to him?

[ImalwaysrightOK]

I think if he hasn't made the effort then yes. If he tries everyday, then he's actually trying but if he's given up, then you should too.

[Anonymous]

If he is not even trying to find a job, dump him.

[sifat10shahriar]

Money means a lot. You may think that money is nothing and love is the main thing. But money affects a relationship so much

[EaterPeter]

For how long he is unemployed?

[Asker]

For months

[EaterPeter]

Is he getting unemployment?

[EaterPeter]

He must get job before he runs out of unemployment or you should give up

[Asker]

He ain't getting unemployment either

[EaterPeter]

For how long?

[EaterPeter]

Is he bringing in any income at all?

[EaterPeter]

What else he can bring on table?

[Asker]

Nope nothing

[EaterPeter]

Time to let go

[EaterPeter]

You should give up

[Anonymous]

If its not the life you want then yeah leave him.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, when I couldn't get work I just made my own

[Anonymous]

Yeah, he sounds like a real slacker.

[Part2603]

How big is his cock?

[Jdjfjcjj]

What a loser