I was taken to court because I was the side chick?

[Anonymous]

I was seeing a man and had no clue he had a girlfriend. I contacted him directly and this woman got on the phone and I basically told her I been talking to him for months. Then I was served a restraining order. I had to go to court. I cursed out this woman and told her she was so dumb not to know her supposed boyfriend was cheating this long on her. When we got to court she sat there quietly and said nothing. She no longer wanted to testify against me. She looked so crazy and like she wanted to cry. Why would she coke to court to see the person her man’s been cheating with? Is this woman crazy? I would have left a guy like him soo fast. After court me and the guy STILL talk. He tells me he got rid of her. Should I trust him or move on?

[Avicenna]

You don't want to be involved with a cheater and you want to keep your distance from this situation (both of these people). He is lying to you and is not someone you can trust.

[Asker]

She worked at his business and he tells me she is now trying to sue him for money

[Avicenna]

Yeah, well, whatever the truth may be (and I doubt he's told the truth to you), you still don't want to be involved with a cheater with a whole lot of drama and chaos in his life.

[Asker]

Yes that’s true

[MementoMori777]

Did something else happen, I feel like you aren't telling the full story here, did you keep proceeding her boyfriend? Maybe even after you had the knowledge of their relationship?

[XXblack88]

definitely move on. If he cheated on his girlfriend then it's very likely that he'll cheat on you to.

[abc3643]

I think you have issues too.

Yeah, get rid of this baggage and move on.

[Jdjfjcjj]

Why would she do that? To publicly out you and mess with your reputation.

[Anonymous]

you are one of many side chicks most likely.

[najekim]

Move on.