I was taken to court because I’m a mistress?

[Anonymous]

The “girlfriend” of what I thought was my boyfriend wanted him to get a restraining order against me. So we went to court and I showed all the evidence of text, sext, and him masturbating on video call. After I showed all of the contact between me and him she got quiet and no longer wanted to testify against me. What was the point of this? My time was wasted and I was humiliated about my sex life with him. She was sooo ready to talk shit about me to the judge and then decided to get quiet and sit out of testimony. What do you think happened?

[Guy13]

I think you Won. No satisfaction in that? How's the relationship now? You are LUCKY that he was not married or it could have been much worse for you. You know the Wife can come after the Affair's assets and divorce attorney incorporate that into their protocol.

[Asker]

Me and him still having sex but not officially together yet though. We say I love you and I believe he is broken up with her, so we’ll see what happens between me and him.

[Asker]

What do you mean satisfaction?

[Guy13]

Oh I see !!! Things are moving along just fine. At least you got over the Court sex life tell. A lot of women could not get over the embarrassment. I think that's what the Ex was counting on too. She was also trying to break you guys up.

[Asker]

Yes, she set back in the audience like a creep watching me and him argue and the judge asking to see Mr naked lol

[Asker]

*me naked

[Guy13]

Freaky gig...

[Asker]

Embarrassing to be honest

[Asker]

He rejected me in front of everyone and denied what happened between us

[Anonymous]

He fed her a line and she ran with it.

When faced with the reality, she realised she would not win the case and probably that she had been fooled by a dishonourable male.

Note that he did this to her and you. Consider yourself warned.

[Asker]

Yes it is a very bad situation and he rejected me in front of everyone and denied anything between us

[SnowedIn]

Highly probable that he fed her a line of BS that you tried to seduce him or something like that. You had evidence otherwise and it called his bluff.

[Asker]

Yes exactly, I know she felt dumb af

[SnowedIn]

Good for you, actually, for having your shit together.

[Asker]

Yes! She looked like she wanted to cry lol

[annabananna]

She was pissed because you wronged her and that’s how she reacted when she was hurt. Don’t want the drama of being a mistress don’t be a mistress.

[Asker]

Never knew she existed so what are you talking about? Her supposed boyfriend wronged her.

[Asker]

He is the one seeking sex outside of her relationship telling me he loves me and sleeping with me. I thought he was my boyfriend. He is to blame for the mess. If I was her I wouldn’t have never gone to court I would have moved on because he is not her husband. She made herself look like a dumb ass because she got to hear all about me and his sex life.

[Asker]

And she’s a scary punk because she no longer wanted to testify after she seen our sex videos and text lol

[annabananna]

I guess she is pissed that he wronged her and is taking it out on you or got caught in the cross fire then. He probably told her a bunch of stuff that made her feel justified in sending you. What was her reasoning in sending you anyway?

[Asker]

Me fighting and calling him out for trying to play me and not knowing he was already in a relationship.

[annabananna]

Like physical fighting?

[Summeroflove]

Shouldn’t sleep with men in relationships then

[Asker]

I never knew she even existed lol

[Asker]

I thought he was my boyfriend

[Summeroflove]

Oh…. Sorry then. Yeah that’s shitty. You never did anything wrong then so. I’m sorry about that

[Guy13]

it sucks and i am not blind to that. Better now than when involved to a point where there is no turning back and his behavior has escalated.

[Summeroflove]

@Guy13 yeah

[Asker]

He rejected me in front of everyone and denied everything between us. I don’t think of him the same way

[Summeroflove]

He’s just a POS

[Asker]

Yesss this 👏 I told him he is too lol

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know why some people are the way they are. If someone is ashamed of you. That’s a problem

I can understand sometimes in the beginning of something not coming out and telling everyone if it might not work out.

But if someone’s ashamed or you. Fuck that.

[Summeroflove]

You’ll find better

[Asker]

We are different races so it may be about race. The girlfriend I didn’t know about is very unattractive and is his business associate. So I think he is using her money or using her free labor

[Summeroflove]

Well. That’s his problem now.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Summeroflove]

I mean well he had someone who was good to him, who I assume is attractive, etc. And he did what he did.

So it is what it is. I feel bad for the new woman he’s with. But when she figures it out she’ll probably leave too

[Summeroflove]

It seems you found someone else too so. I just would try to put him behind you and move on with your life.

Sorry he did you like that

[Asker]

Huh? No I’m the other woman. I said his long term girlfriend is ugly and old and is his business associate

[Asker]

Nope haven’t found no one else yet. Your just making up stuff lol

[Summeroflove]

Oh…. You’re with someone in a relationship?

[Summeroflove]

Sorry sometimes I get people confused I have conversations going with a number of people they mix together sometimes

[Summeroflove]

I remember now sorry. Yes sorry. Yeah he did something shitty you didn’t know he was with her. He lied to you.

I assume you’ll find better then him. Much better