How do I get a girlfriend if I have autism?

[Anonymous]

Hey, I knwo this might be a stupid question but i could really use some help. I've been struggling meeting and talikg to women. Tinder hasn't been working for me which is weird because im a good looking guy. Anyways I asked one of my female friends why girls don't like me and she said that Im awkward and I say stupid things. This makes sense because I am diagnosed with Aspergers. Its really hard for me to find someone who actually enjoys me for who I am. So I am looking for tips on how I can make my shitty personality better so I can get a girlfriend and live a normal life. Im not nervous when talking to girls. I can talk for hours. Its just that I say dumb things. For instance I thought I was bisexual because I could tell if a man is physically attractive. So i told everyone im bisexual. Turns out thats not the definition of bisexual and straight people can tell if someone in their own gender is physically attractive. But the damage was done and I made myself look like an idiot. This isn't the only misunderstanding I've had. I routinely piss people off by being too honest. This happens because of my Aspergers. Im never sure if what i say is offensive. Pls help me. Thanks!

[VikingWarLord]

Listen to me, you're still relatively young. Women don't really care about your personality, they only care if you have status, money and some decent looks (but the status and money is the bigger priority). They'll overlook your naivety and aspergers if your bank account is loaded.

The worst thing a guy can do is CASH IN HIS CHIPS TOO EARLY.

Your sexual market place value will SKY-ROCKET as you get into your 30s and 40s. You'll still have broads in their late teens and early 20s who will want you bad.

Focus on getting your MONEY up right now. Get a gym membership and go 3 times a week (Monday - Wednesday - Friday) and get your diet on point.

[Asker]

Highly disagree with you about the personality thing. Thats the number one metric girls judge by.

[Asker]

but yeah i do go to the gym. I have a six pack and everything. I make 70k a year. However it hasn't been doing shit for me in terms of getting girls. Thats why im discouraged. Nothing I do works because the core issue is my personality.

[Anonymous]

Are you sure you’re good looking? I see a lot of guys claim they’re attractive when they’re not. Personality only matters if women find you attractive. Post your dating profile/pics.

[AsaKyo]

Find a girl who is understanding of your issues and will be patient with you, regardless of whether she has autism or is neurotypical

[Anonymous]

sadly going to assume you never had a girlfriend? thats not unusual for lots of autistic men

[Quackthulu2]

Date a girl with autism.