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I’m in love with a autistic girl, what I can do?

I fall in love with a autistic girl. She is almost “normal”, it’s not like the movies or extreme cases.


Other people don’t see her like that, just like a shy girl that like to do things her way.

I did not know in the beginning, the only reason I know it was because I study the subject a lot for some papers and some pure coincidence that confirm it.

I fall for her, everything about her, even the defects.

But I don’t know what to do. Things are hard when you not just random talking to her, she has a lot of difficulty’s with emotions.

She get stressed very easily and burn out.

I can’t just talk out of the blue with her, if she is not expecting she don’t know what to do and get a bad experience.

I know she has felling for me too, she can’t hide anything like that. If she is mad you will know, if she sad you will know and etc.

I can’t invite her out, I already know that she hates it.

The main thing is she needs to start things most of the times, then you can do it again. Like talk, if she open to you, you can go talk to her, but if she not, she gonna get lost.

But wait for her to start things are not taking us anywhere.

I can see she trying, getting mad with herself, sad and taking some time to try again.

I wanna just do it for her, but that’s not what I Should do in this case.

I see she’s sad when we don’t talk and failing and it kinda kills me.

I did try a lot of times before. But I can’t make it not be new so she always get very stressed and lost.

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by the way she don’t need help in her day to day and are very smart, a lot actually. Her main problem are with feeling/deal with people. In Other things she is very dedicated, gracious, successful.

I’m in love with a autistic girl, what I can do?
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