Is this a red flag 🚩or a green flag?

[Anonymous]

Hi so I would like to be anonymous because I can't tell if my crush uses this website.

Anyways straight to the point I have been best friends with a girl for 6 months. And she keeps giving me mixed signals, after her birthday party she told me how much she liked her perfume I gave her and she was so obsessed with it. And also when we have group projects she also wants to to them with me she tells me we are a team and she hopes that next year we will still be friends regarding her changing courses but the thing that confuses me is that she always says we are like 'family' and I don't know what she means by that recently I uploaded a story on my if story it was a lesbian song sofia by clairo and she gave it a ❤️. Also yesterday we had to watch the eurovision song contest by facetimr but after she said she couldn't face time me because they are family over she got disappointed. Now she asked me to hangout this weekend and if I want I can bring my brother

Ps: she always compliments me

What do you guys think? does she like me or not

Thanks

[_Maya_]

First thing first. You crush almost certainly doesn't use the site. This community is so small I would be shocked. It is possible. Second thing is that I doubt your username gives away any clue to who you are. That said it is fine to be anon. In regards to the question there is really nothing there that pops out at me that says she is into you. So she liked a birthday gift and gushed about it. That is to show appreciation. She says you are a great team. Uh I am not sure the last time my girlfriend referred to us as a team. A couple? Yeah sure. A team? Can't ever recall that. The biggest thing that stands out in your details is how you said she says she wants to be great friends. She wants to be friends. She even says it. The whole "family" thing is even more telling. Do you like people (dating wise) that you consider like "family". I don't.

[Asker]

You are right, it doesn't make sense if she consider us 'family' she would want to be in a relationship with me but her body language suggested she would guess I tought of it wrong. I really value my friendship with her but when I try to shake these feelings away they always come back thanks for your honest opinion I appreciate it

[In_Trance]

I think you should just ask her if she likes you or not

[Asker]

Yes I could do that but I really value our friendship, what if I ask her and ruin everything absolutely not!! I can't imagine my life without her it would break me 💔. I did think about it but the idea if her leaving my life hurts me more than her rejecting me. Thanks for your opinion

[SotiCoto]

Looks red to me.

[Asker]

Thanks for your opinion

[Avicenna]

It's hard to say. I can see why ypu're confused...

[Asker]

Finally!! Someone understands me

[LEGENDARY4200]

Ask her and get to the bottom of it