Male height. how do women perceive it socialy and what? are acceted as passable?

[nik0102]

as to what determines your choice and how does it affect attraction, sensation, etc. l

5.8 is a good height

i dont see guys under 6 ft

6 ft is ideal but i can go for shorter

6.3 is easy win

[Anonymous]

I think it's only a significant issue with women who are beanpoles. I mean, I know women who've talked to me expressly because I'm well over 6 feet tall. How do I know? She told me. To which I told her that that comment made her very unattractive to me. No guy wants to be told that. I told her how would you like it if a guy told you he chose you because of the size of your boobs?

[itsclearlynicholas]

I'm 6 foot or was 6 foot 1. Maybe I've shrunk or my doctors always measured when I wore my sneakers. 👟
I'd say "most" or "fair" women prefer a man taller than them or a lot taller.
Then again there's variables.
I said nothing under 6 foot is women's views and for myself if I was dating a woman no one taller than 5foot 😋✌🏻😈

[nik0102]

i am a little bit below 5.8 actually, and i have been rejected by multiple women for that

[itsclearlynicholas]

Did they tell you they want 6foot minimum?

[itsclearlynicholas]

Or other reasons? 😔 Surely a woman or women must've explained if asked "the why"

[nik0102]

i was dating a girl who was taller than me. pretty soon she confessed she always wanted guys to be taller than her. at some point we started having an open relationship, and she only skrewd 6 foot guys

[itsclearlynicholas]

@nik0102 on the plus side fellow man: at least you got to sleep with her and date her for a while before before the open status , that's something ain't it? Memories? Precious memories? 💓

[DishLady]

Personally, I prefer someone just a little taller -- not by much (like 5'10 to 6ft-ish, (6'1 max).

Too tall seems awkward to me, like Lily Tomlin's "big chair" skits (https://www. vcstar. com/picture-gallery/news/local/2018/10/09/check-out-lily-tomlins-characters/1579264002).

[nik0102]

@DishLady if someone is the same height or slightly shorter, is it a red flag?

[DishLady]

Not "RED FLAG" like "yikes run away, this is a bad guy," but it's super annoying not to be able to wear my nice shoes.

[nik0102]

@DishLady why wouldn't you be able? whats the matter in actually being a bit taller?

[DishLady]

🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t like the word “wrong” here. It sets the wrong tone. It’s just not for me.

[nik0102]

at its core, isn't it a bit shallow, stereotypical and kind of body shaming if you think about it?

[DishLady]

Equally shallow on the guy’s part to think a girl should overlook her personal tastes in favor of his.

And shaming a person for having a preference isn’t any different.

[nik0102]

i didn't shame you. if we call it just preference tho, with the same way of thinking as the above sentence, every kind of body shaming is transformed into just preference. if you are fine by it, it should work the other way around, right?

[Nikki1989]

I have always preferred men my own height, 5'2. I see my husband as a giant at 5'7.

[nik0102]

that sounds cool, i hope i am also perceived as a giant by someone

[itsclearlynicholas]

@Nikki1989 imagine if he was 6foot plus 😂😂😂😂

[Nikki1989]

@itsclearlynicholas I would need to carry around a step-ladder or something.

[itsclearlynicholas]

@Nikki1989 wouldn't you be impressed though with his big size? You'd be like always sheltered by a tree 🎄🌴

[itsclearlynicholas]

@Nikki1989 and that's not even taking into account the wide eyed of other pros lol 😉😆 cya 😜

[itsclearlynicholas]

Nikki gone quiet? 😞

[SallyTho87]

Personally, for myself, height isn't a huge characteristic or necessity when it comes to dating. I focus primarily on my connection with the person, if I like their personality, if I get along well with them, if we share a sense of humour and commonalities, etc.
Connection, emotional connection, maturity, mannerism, respect, and genuine/ authenticity, are FAR MORE noticeable, than what height is.

[Apple1996]

I'm 4'10 so everyone looks tall to me. Height isn't something that I care about at all

[Ms_Facesitter]

He's shorter than me, he says he's 5'9. If he was under that, I wouldn't mind. He's great.

[Juxtapose]

I'm the same height as Mike Tyson so if that's not good enough bring that up to Mr. Tyson.

🤣👍

[OddBeMe]

Jonas bros seem to be marrying well. So money?