Being ghosted after really good dates? This one dating experience really struck me and I can't stop thinking about it?

Foreign3r

Hi all,

I (24) met this girl (23) through a dating app, Bumble, we started texting and she asked me out after some time, we went on our first date for a coffee and it went well and we kissed at the end of the date. She went away for holidays the day after, so the second date was 9 days after the first one, I took her to an art gallery, which she mentioned she would like to visit and we had a really good time, I kissed her and she reciprocated everything I did, she also initiated a lot of things like holding my hands, etc... After that we went for a walk to a nearby park and sat on a bench, just talking for like an hour, she snuggled up against me and hugged my arm, we ended the date by kissing.

I asked when she has time again and she said maybe the next day, so I asked her out for dinner and we went to her favourite place, I tried to kiss her, but she awkwardly laughed it off and we carried on talking (She's very introverted and shy, so I just assumed it was because we were on the street with people around), after the dinner she said she will show me something so we walked, after which she said she lives close and if I want to come over, I said yes and everybody knows what comes after, at the end of the evening we agreed I will go home because we both had to wake up for work, she gave me like millions of kisses, hugged me for eternity and thanked me for a really nice evening. I texted her the next day thanking for a nice time and tried to plan another date, but she never replied. She still follows me on Instagram...

It made me really confused, because, from my point of view, it went really well, for me those were some of the best dates I had with any girl. It felt like it was going in the right direction, she was asking me tons of questions and we were talking and laughing all the time, she hugged me and kissed me and she kept repeating she can't wait for me to make her coffee with a cat latte art on top because I mentioned I want to buy new coffee machines soon.

Updates
11 mo
Well, I didn't have to wait that long after all... Got a response "Thank you but I'll pass to focus more on myself. Hope you can understand. Wishing you the best tho"

Kinda unfortunate but yeah, can't force others to like you ;)
Being ghosted after really good dates? This one dating experience really struck me and I can't stop thinking about it?
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