Why I struggle so much with talking to a girl I like?

[Anonymous]

I can easily talk to attractive girls. But when I catch feelings i dont know what to say.

[Anonymous]

It's common to feel nervous or anxious when talking to someone you're interested in, particularly if you have strong feelings for them. This is a natural response to the uncertainty and vulnerability that comes with forming a romantic connection with someone.

One possible reason why you may struggle to talk to a girl you like could be related to fear of rejection or fear of not being good enough. These fears can cause you to second-guess yourself, feel self-conscious, or avoid taking risks that could lead to potential rejection.

It's important to remember that rejection is a natural part of the dating process, and that it's not a reflection of your worth or value as a person. It's also important to recognize that building a connection with someone takes time and effort, and that it's okay to take things slow and get to know them gradually.

One way to overcome your nervousness or anxiety when talking to someone you like is to focus on building a connection based on common interests or shared experiences. Instead of trying to impress them or win them over, try to be authentic, honest, and respectful in your interactions. Listen actively to what they have to say, and show genuine interest in their thoughts and feelings.

Remember that forming a connection with someone takes time and effort, and that it's okay to take things at your own pace. With practice and patience, you can develop the confidence and skills you need to build meaningful connections with the people you're interested in.

[Anonymous]

Lie, lie, lie and lie some more. Make s*** up and then make some more s*** up. Where most guys go wrong is by thinking women want to get to know you. And maybe that's true (assuming she doesn't just want to get her f*** on). But she wants to be really attracted to you first. Even if that attraction is completely fabricated. Because let's be honest, woman really can't tell the difference between real and fake (unless it's a diamond😆). Once she's fully hooked on you like a meth head then you can start to disperse some truths about you. And then she'll decide whether she wants to continue to ride this ride anymore.